i caught my brother wearing bra,now what should i do
he is pleading me to not to tell it to mom, he says he will do anything if i told tell it to mom
he says he was curious about bra and he is doing it third time
should i tell mom or not
he is 15 , i am 17 and bras were mine
2007-11-26 17:58:33 · 11 answers · asked by neha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
heck no that poor boy! don't tell ur parents he is just a teenage they all do that stuff. it isn't that it was your bra just that it was a bra and he was curious. how would you like it if he caught you doing something inappropriate and he told on you. why even ask that's so mean.
2007-11-26 18:37:35 · answer #1 · answered by Shelby L 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, I would not tell your parents about the issue. Kids of that age commonly experiment with such things. If you were to tell your parents, it would only serve to humiliate the poor kid, and drive a wedge between the two of you.
What he did is harmless, for all intents and purposes. Offer to take him to someplace like wal mart and let him look with you, if he finds something he likes, purchase it for him. That will give him the freedom to experiment without using your cloths.
If he is headed into cross dressing, there is little that can be done to prevent it. Even when adult cross dressers do seek treatment, it is not effective >95% of the time. You would do both him and yourself a favor and let him deal with it.
Most kids of that age, start cross dressing for sexual gratification. As they get older it becomes less sexual and more of a stress relief system. Most adult cross dressers have no problem with cross dressing affecting their lives. . .
As I stressed above, let him know your cloths are off limits, but help him to buy a few things for himself.
One last thing, just because he has shown an interest in wearing your cloths, does not mean that he is gay. >95% of adult cross dressers are straight and have no desire to become a woman or become gay.
Hope this helps
2007-11-27 02:16:31 · answer #2 · answered by Clara Nett 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Buy him a bra and panties set in his size,. Something pretty and feminine and see how he reacts. If he likes that then he is probably a transvestite. If he is he will always be and he wont be able to resist trying on your clothes when he gets the chance. To stop this make sure he has his own supply. You could keep them in your room for him and make it clear that he only wears the ones you have got for him. If he is transvestite he will be so grateful for your attention that he will do anything for you so you can have a help-full brother who will run errands for you or a personal maid to keep your room tidy or do your share of the household chores. You could train him to look after your clothes which he would love doing. You could buy him a nice pretty apron and when you visit some of your girl friends you take him with you and make him wear the apron and serve you and your friends.
the possibilities are endless
2007-11-26 20:50:55 · answer #3 · answered by Maid Angela 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Guys are kinky and like trying new things....it's not about you but women's cloths in general....maybe just talk to him about it and say you have a few older bras he could have!!! Your relation ship will be even stronger!!! :)
2015-05-19 13:27:13 · answer #4 · answered by ryan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its is pure anxiety it happens at this age. Children love to experiment and there is always desire to know the unknown.
Threats will have a negative impact. Simple tell him he is a boy and behave like one.
2007-11-26 23:01:16 · answer #5 · answered by jittender k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tel him to go buy his own bra!
And get his iPod, his Xbox and everything else he's got , and don't tell mom, but hint her that she should wacth out for her bras!!!!
2007-11-26 18:11:09 · answer #6 · answered by sofisintown 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It;s probably just a phase he's going through. I would make him buy is own, well he gives you the money and you buy it for him. This way he'll leave yours alone. Just make sure you get him one that fit's properly. And while your at it, he would probalby like a pair of panties as well.
2007-12-01 06:35:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not tell the parents,it is time for blackmail ! lol,now take any thing you want from him and i do mean any thing,and now you can pretty much do any thing with him,he is like your slave.congratulation.lol.
2007-12-04 10:55:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple... gift him one on his birthday!!! and make him feel at home!
2007-11-26 18:01:27 · answer #9 · answered by rufiboy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
HAHAHAHA......don't tell your mom....tell everyone at school
2007-11-26 18:12:03 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋