Ok...there's this dude at school and he follows me. It's like he's a stalker. He tries talking to me and I don't know him. I try telling him to like go away but he just keeps coming back. Every time I turn around he is RIGHT THERE!! Now he is even going after my best friends. What do I do about this dude??
2007-11-26 15:13:52 · 8 answers · asked by .:(* it's hopee *):. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
kick him in the nuts and run
2007-11-26 15:18:14 · answer #1 · answered by chucky 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh for crying out loud.Why dont you try treating him like a human being.He may be a decent fellow and just think you are good looking and wants to know you.If you think he is uglier than home made sin, it doesnt mean he is evil.It just means he would like to date you, but it does NOT mean you HAVE to date him.Just tell him you like him as a friend and thats all youll ever like him as.When people are mean to someone like him,if he isnt a monster they help turn him into one by being mean to him.
After yrs of being rejected and mistreated just for showing interest in someone hurts a lot and it wounds people emotionally.
Now if AFTER you tell him you just like him as a friend and he becomes aggressive thats when you tell the teachers and your parents and THEY will see that he learns his boundaries.
2007-11-26 23:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by asking him if you can help him? He might be shy and not know how to talk to you.. Not all boys have hidden agendas, and by being rude to him or telling him to buzz off won't change the fact that he will still want to talk to you.
He is going after your best friends as he might find it easier to approach them and get them to talk to you - seeing you say that you are telling him to go away.
If you don't resolve the issue at this point, bring it to the attention of an adult or teacher, as if he is stalking you, it may lead to something of greater danger and this behavior needs to be nipped in the bud.
To me it sounds like he is trying to get your attention - whether that is good or bad needs to be found out by you or by an adult if the kid won't leave you alone.
2007-11-26 23:23:35 · answer #3 · answered by mumma.stench 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him see what he wants tell him hes freakin you out but dont be stuck up lifes to short and he could be a nice person that just likes you after you talk to him you will know for sure if you want him to go away he may just be pestering you to piss you off is it working is he winning remember kill em with kindness BUT!!!if he is a stalker then be very careful on what you say and do and dont ever give him the chance to be alone with you
2007-11-26 23:33:45 · answer #4 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some big guy to scare the crap out of this creep. I've was once stalked by some girl and it freaked me out and I'm a guy 6' 180 lbs. but I can't stop a bullet (it was that bad). I just kept avoiding her and eventually she stoped bothering me. Be carefull.
2007-11-26 23:23:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the Principal and your parents ,or get a restraining order if nothing else works.
2007-11-26 23:19:55 · answer #6 · answered by kookie_cowgirl2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telll someone who can do something about it before he does more than follow you around.
2007-11-26 23:17:09 · answer #7 · answered by Ricky J. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him! Cuse him out do sumtin': i hope he dont follow u home either
2007-11-26 23:17:43 · answer #8 · answered by Jay 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋