I am tired of the people I hang out with and being centered around parties and drinking, what is a way to meet new people? I am a pretty social person and don't have too much trouble meeting people but when my entire social life has been based around parties for the last 4 years (i am 20 years old). I guess its just time for me to grow up but my friends are continually going downhill and starting to get into harder drugs, I have to get away. Thanks advance to anyone who responds. I think I am transferring to an out of state college too.
2007-11-26 14:47:46 · 8 answers · asked by burgler09 5 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
sporting clubs usually are frequented by people who s aim is to look after their bodies and not abuse them
2007-11-26 14:58:29 · answer #1 · answered by jasmine d 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you for wanting to finally grow up.
I've gone through things with my friends too. I ended those friendships though because they just made me deal with a lot of crap I didn't want to. You can't have bad company...
God will bring you the good company you deserve. He works in mysterious ways. You can try going to church, library, etc. Just don't go to the typical college party areas / clubs where you know bad people are going to be.
2007-11-26 22:51:55 · answer #2 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This sounds weird but hang out at Barns & Nobles. Lots of mixed people there. Don't bother the ones actully reading. lol.
I don't know if transferring will change...the college atmosphere. It'll be samething different crowd.
2007-11-26 22:56:48 · answer #3 · answered by PeachJello 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad you can see that drinking/drugs, isnt really that fun after all. Im 20yrs also and it took me getting pregnant to finally grow up.
My advice to you would to get involved in the church. Read the Holy Bible. You will better your life in all areas once you turn fully unto the Lord.
And this is no joke-God Bless you, and I really mean that......
2007-11-26 23:14:17 · answer #4 · answered by butterrum28 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of us have been to those very cross roads of leaving the partying scene to a more mature way...It is just plain ol growing up and some don't ever make it there so I say good for you ...............
2007-11-26 23:22:05 · answer #5 · answered by cherry apple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join a church that has an active singles group. Get involved in volunteering. There are decent people out there. You can find them if you try.
2007-11-26 22:52:28 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do things that you find meaningful and make you peaceful and confident in life.
2007-11-26 23:16:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go surf.
2007-11-26 22:51:13 · answer #8 · answered by stewie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋