My friend likes this guy, but the way they show that they like each other is by hitting each other. Everytime i see them, they are always pinching, hitting, slapping, and punching each other. The other day, he had her by the arm and was hitting her, i whispered to my friend "he's treating her like a slave" and she heard, and now she is super pissed at me. I told her before that the way they treat each other is weird, so i don't see why she's getting so mad at me this time. so far, she has turned about 7 people against me, and they are always talking crap about me now. i have to see her tomorrow so i need all the help i could get!!! i was planning on saying sorry to her but i don't know how she is going to take it. any advice on what i should say???!!! i even had a nightmare of her rejecting my apology last night.
2007-11-26 14:34:39 · 8 answers · asked by ... 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
okay first off all either your going to hate this or love it so whatever i still get points for answering so here:
this is what I would say to her face to face:
"(Whatever her name is), the only thing I'm sorry for is thinking you were a good friend, just because of a stupid little remark that you took the wrong way yougo and turn people against me thinking it's going to hurt me but I don't care. Obviously your just looking for attention and you like playing the role of a drama queen, well I'm way passed your drama I have better things to do. You let your self be treated like a punching bag just because you like a guy, you lower yourself and your the one who looks like the idiot so enjoy being fake :]"
2007-11-26 14:42:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me guess, you are single? Yes? Let them enjoy their love pinches and love nudges. Usually when it's out in public like that its not bad. I remember doing that sort of thing in HS with my best guy friend. It's a really immature way of flirting, but it probably is just that. As for your comment I don't see anything wrong with the comment itself just the fact that you would be so offended by the way they are showing their affection. I'm sorry, but sometimes you should mind your own business, because stuff like this happens. Apologize for getting in her business and that's it. Just mind your own after this.
2007-11-26 22:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by backyotomy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient they will probably stop seeing each other before you know it and then she will feel like a B for treating you badly. I would also say it's up to them how they want to flirt just because you don't approve doesn't give you the right to judge. Let them be childish if they want to and "look in your own plate".
2007-11-26 22:45:57 · answer #3 · answered by David F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like that friend really isn't worth worrying about. If she is causing you that much stress and misery I would look for new friends. You did your part in expressing your concern and also by apologizing, but she rejected that too.
2007-11-26 22:39:27 · answer #4 · answered by wicked_clown_1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't apologize to your friend for expressing the way you feel. You have the right to state your opinion, don't be sorry for it.
Your friend and her boyfriend need to grow UP, too..
kids.
2007-11-26 22:46:47 · answer #5 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't apologise to her because those kind of bitches don't deserve your noble feelings, be strong and make a new friends if that the case.
2007-11-26 23:42:41 · answer #6 · answered by Mr.Why 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r entitled to ur own opinions and true friends would not turn people against u so dont listen to her or her friends and if the people that she turned against u listened to her they r not really ur friends
2007-11-26 22:46:41 · answer #7 · answered by Ericka L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not your foult thatshe hates you
she is in looooooooooove
ask if she is going to break up with you over some guy who always hits her!!!!!!!
2007-11-26 22:44:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋