How can I politely ask people to stop calling me ugly?

Question

The reason why I ask this question a billion times: everyone has called me ugly since I was little.
My mother thinks I'm not thin enough; my dad hates my hair; my aunt thinks I look like a man; my friends are....just take what you get with boys; boys I like glare at me.
Amidst all this, the only thing that every gave me joy was academia, so I worked hard and got compliments on my work. But while I feel good in terms of education and kindness ( I love cooking for people), others still don't stop nagging. And whenever I get angry and start crying, sometimes, they make me feel like I'm shallow and only into looks or when I point out a cute guy...
I still care for my family and friends, but how can I sit them down and make them understand that they are making me feel like I'm only worth marrying some fat troll.
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Answer 1

you are not ugly!!!!

your family needs help...

Answer 2

You're kidding right? You are NOT ugly! Just be the kind of person that allows for you to look at yourself in the mirror and feel good about yourself. It's about a lot more than beauty. Don't allow the negative remakes to make you feel bad. These people obviously don't have a clue. With your family you could try explaining how their remarks make you feel. As far as friends, maybe you should find some new ones. Some that build you up rather than tear you down. Hugs!

Answer 3

Honey, they aren't MAKING you feel anything, this is how you are allowing yourself to feel!
Tell yourself you are beautiful every day ( the picture isn't very good, but you look beautiful from what I can see ) even if you don't believe it at first, say it anyway.

and when those knuckleheads say something negative about you, just remember, it's not YOU , they have some kind of personal problem . Smile sweetly and tell them, " Well, that is YOUR opinion. Everyone's entitled to one I suppose. "

You will end up looking classy, they will be showing their true colors.

Best Wishes to you, my friend

Answer 4

WHAT! you don't look ugly at all just one thing is you need some sleep, were you tired when you took these photos?
Your parents are mean, just forget about what they said to you you do look pretty though just get some rest, You will get a nice guy it's just time, People who make fun of you just ignore them, they just wanna make you feel bad.
be confident in your looks ^_^

Answer 5

OMG I am soooo sorry but if they don't except you the way you are and don't think that you are beautiful than they are obviously not good parents no offense just tell them the truth straitght out and plain how you feel and why you feel that way and if they don't stop tell them loudly and the exact moment that they say it because it should catch there attention and let them know that they are hurting you

Answer 6

i really dont think ur that bad looking. just ignore them you should be more focused on ur academics anyway it will get u farther in life than looks, trust me i have the same prob. but i am a straight A student and i am in beta club and many other things. yea i have my hair im a little to big and i wear glasses BIG WHOOP!lol just tell them you like who you are and you hope they will accept it. the girls i know who only care about looks are as dumb as a rock! so just ignore them & do what you think is right!

Answer 7

Well this is probably not what you want to hear. Those people are thoughtless and unsupportive of you. You can't change them. What you can change is who you spend your time with, and if they're going to be that way you should spend less time around them. None at all if necessary. They may be family but they're NOT your friends.

And you're not ugly.

Answer 8

If you believe you are attractive others will too. You do not look like troll bait. If you act like you deserve a handsome, kind, intelligent man you will attract him. Never settle for less. And when people nag, ignore them or say "It could be worse. I could be an insensitive boar!"

Answer 9

end putting out with them. in case you have a baby, your partying days are over. advance up and carry close out with some adults that aren't getting under the impact of alcohol in lots of circumstances sufficient for this to be a controversy. you ought to no longer be allowing your daughter close to drunkards besides and you ought to no longer be telling her that your under the impact of alcohol friends say she's gruesome. Parenting fail all around.

Answer 10

Just shake it off. Looks aren't something to cry about, cause you're going to live with how you are the rest of your life. It's not going to change. Just get used to it and learn how to cope with it. Don't let people know that it bothers you, because they'll take advantage of that and just make fun of you. Life is better off when you don't worry about how good you look.

Answer 11

I DIDNT SEE ANY UGLY PICS HERE!!! you're pretty girl!!! you've got a beautiful and expressive set of eyes and a captivating smile! dont mind them... just because you dont look like them doesnt mean you dont look good...if their guage at beauty is what they see in the mirror everyday, then they probably need to visit their opto..you just probably need to surprise them one time...haha!!