my best friend calls me, then when i start talking or there is a silence she just hangs up. it bugs the crap out of me and more importantly makes me feel like crap. after she does it i usually send her a text saying tht it bugs me and tht i dont really appreciate when she does tht, but tht has done nothing.... now wht?
2007-11-26 14:16:54 · 24 answers · asked by going [[nowhere]] fast 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Say "Hello" when she calls, then hang up. Keep doing this until she gets the point.
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2007-11-26 14:20:48 · answer #1 · answered by Seeker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HER!!! What the **** is she calling you for if all she does is hang up on you? Let me guess, she loves being the center of attention, making fun of you and possibly your other friends, it's all about her all of the time, huh? You don't need her. You are not the problem. You are not boring. She has a major problem and needs to grow up. Next time she hangs up on you don't do anything. If she calls you back don't answer. And never talk to her again. You have already explained how this hurts you. If she really gives a crap about YOUR feelings and not just her own then she wouldn't still be doing that.
2007-11-26 14:27:10 · answer #2 · answered by backyotomy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this person doesn't seem like much of a best friend to me. If she hangs up on you and doesn't care what you have to say she isn't worth it, but you should confront her in person where she can't hang up or ignore your text message. Tell her that you feel unimportant and that in order to keep your friendship she needs to give you more respect. A little give, a little take. Don't be rude, just be assertive and explain your perspective. Hopefully she will apologize and try and be better next time, otherwise a search for a new best friend might be in order...
2007-11-26 14:21:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will always gain by working on your self -like lifting weights to build strong muscles. Find ways to overcome this with a technique that is positive and wise and you will never regret it-people will think well of you and wonder where you got all that wisdom for a young person. You will be asked to teach others and to be an important citizen in your community. Just force yourself to stick with the program and you will be promoted in all that you do. It is commonly called good people skills.
2007-11-26 14:29:23 · answer #4 · answered by clm.vbuseck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to your friend with a chilling glare and stern voice and ask her what gives. Don't show any signs of fear or hesitation. When people know you're soft, they walk all over you. After the conversatin give her one more chance. If she does it again text her, e-mail her, myabe even write to her and make sure they say that shes been mean to you and to go pound sand up her big fat ***(not really saying that). Hopefully she gets the message and apoligies. If not, maybe shes not your real friend.
2007-11-26 14:28:01 · answer #5 · answered by Outdoors Kid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that your friend does that.....that's very rude! Maybe your friend wants attention from you and that's the only way she knows? I'm no expert, but maybe you should give her a doce of her own medicine....maybe she'll feel how you feel and realize what she is doing is wrong. Sometimes people have to experience it firsthand before they will get the message. If it doesn't bother her....talk to her face to face and make her answer you! Good Luck.
2007-11-26 14:23:56 · answer #6 · answered by ☺♠JonasJay♫♦ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats never happened to me but my friend is kindof like that. its all about her and sometimes she could give a crap about anyone else. talk to her up front and where she cant escape you like in the mall or somthing. if she says nothing after you told her what she does then just walk away. shell see your serious and confront you
best of luck!
<3 Jillian
2007-11-26 14:24:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about how you feel each time when she does that...
I think she'll understand after u've explained things to her clearly...
Give her some time as I think she is facing other problems too...
She is still ur best friend... Never forget that... She still needs you and cares for you too... Ask her gently how she feels lately and tell her that you feel awkward when she does like that...
2007-11-26 14:27:36 · answer #8 · answered by acer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...
All I can say is leave her alone. Besides, what kind of friend does that...? Not a good one. lol
Find new friends to txt and be happier. Come on, life is short to be worrying about weird ppl all the time.
Live a little. Good luck! :)
2007-11-26 14:21:31 · answer #9 · answered by whynotme_ldh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha, don't feel bad, my mother does it to me all the time. Stop giving her attention - She acts like she could care less about keeping friends.
Ignore her for a while.
2007-11-26 14:19:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋