Forgiving- is the most hardest thing to learn, please help me if you can. Tell me what do you do to forgive someone.
2007-11-26 13:21:45 · 10 answers · asked by Alena 5 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
There is one person who lied to me, a lot, about everything!!! Now, when the truth is revealed, I can not stand that person, but they are trying very hard to make it up to me. What should I do?
2007-11-26 13:33:44 · update #1
depends on what they did, what did they do?
2007-11-26 13:25:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look deep into your heart, you obviously want to forgive this person or you wouldn't be asking the question. You can pray about it, you can ask others that are close to you about it. Or you can decide, is this person worth forgiving, can I look at this person and not ever bring that up again? If you think you can do that, than you can forgive them.
However, you can forgive, it is much harder to forget. No one expects you to forget, just be careful.
Good luck
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2007-11-26 13:33:02 · answer #2 · answered by guardianofthemoon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 04:34:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know about forgiving
with some people I haven't forgiven them
for years. One step I heard of one has to forgive themself. For example the person who lied to you
has to earn your trust again. I have a couple of web sites for you to look at one of them should give you your answer
http://www.top/ten.org/content/tt.BE1
2007-11-27 01:44:49 · answer #4 · answered by sweet_blue 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forgive but don't forget. Forgive even without trust. Do not trust that person. Holding resentments or grudges in your heart is unhealthy.
Take care.
2007-11-26 14:15:34 · answer #5 · answered by Jen 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Trust has to be earned again, then comes forgiveness.
2007-11-26 14:03:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Recall when you have. Especially when you were forgiven. Remember: you'll need it again some day.
2007-11-26 20:27:14 · answer #7 · answered by LELAND 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think rape, molestation, and murder are the only things that should never be forgiven, other things, I think, should be forgiven over time.
2007-11-26 13:27:52 · answer #8 · answered by JustAGirlX 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The old saying goes like this { fool me once , shame on you } { fool me twice , Shame - Shame on you } --- { fool me three times ,,,, shame on me }
2007-11-26 13:51:04 · answer #9 · answered by darkcloud 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"messing up" is a subjective term.
2007-11-26 13:29:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋