Ok so im 16 and im a bisexual [I like guys more than girls]
I have this thing that when straight guys stare at me I get all into them like I always worry how I look when im around them
I mean idk how to explain but... Why do straight guys look at me alot? lol There are some straight guys that stare at me
Sometimes I think every guy is gay. Then I get all inlove with them but there straight. So I just don't ge it why they stare at me
What should I do to know they really are bi or gay?
I mean why do they stare at me like that?
Ughh I hope there's someone else like this =////
2007-11-26 12:53:54 · 6 answers · asked by Jay! :D 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well when I was your age I had the same thing. I thought every cute straight gay was not straight but gay, and I would fall madly in love with them, and would wont to be around them all the time. The fact is 9 out of 10 is they were not in fact looking at me at all , but out the window or at some one behind me , and guys who were looking at me, were just interested because I was different. Plus teens are no different from kids. They can be nasty, and quite often I was looked at, just so that they got there kicks for the day, as I would go red in the face. And would have to walk out of the room, because I could not handle it .
Anyways I figged out, that I was lonely. I wonted some one to be close to. And every time some one told me they thought that some cute guy was gay, I found myself thinking they were looking at me, when really I just wonted them to. Any chance of being close to some one was just that, a chance .
I don't know if this helps in anyway, but that's what happened to me.
2007-11-26 13:17:49 · answer #1 · answered by Lance G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOD!! I thought I was the only one. See I'm bi too, and really straight acting (that's what I'm told) and some guys always stare, not all just a couple, and I just thought it was me thinking everybody is gay.
2007-11-26 21:13:24 · answer #2 · answered by ViumoriO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Often when i stare at another guy I'm either thinking of something and have spaced out, or I'm working up the courage to talk to them.
2007-11-26 21:10:19 · answer #3 · answered by Yoji~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they are not staring at you in a suggestive way. Maybe they are curious about your sexuality. At your age, guys are tying to figure out a lot of things. Don't be a horn dog.
2007-11-26 20:59:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe theyre jus looking at u b cuz they know ur different form an average guy!
maybe u jus want them to be gay!
im not trying to be harsh!
2007-11-26 20:57:58 · answer #5 · answered by billy a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are probably all gay or bi because this world is unbalanced
2007-11-26 21:05:43 · answer #6 · answered by saveitok 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋