like a good husband. He is good but not as good as others may think. He is bossy, moody, shouts at his wife and make her feel useless.He is a good provider though. The wife doesn't earn but she sees to it that everything in the house run smoothly - from driving the kids to school, going to the market, and even taking charge when there is a need to call a carpenter, painter or a plumber. How can she handle this kind of person. She loves her husband very much.
2007-11-26 12:45:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is no way this husband should be so involved in church activities. yet he shouts and is moody, etc. Sounds like he may be so active at church that he forgot what the bottom line is. He needs to be talked to, in a loving away. He needs to speak to a church counselor together. My husband learned a lot from our church counseling.
Keep praying. Keep positive. But please know that this behavior can get better. Remind your husband of what the word says. He needs to show love instead of anger. He has to admit when he has a problem, and work on it.
2007-11-26 12:50:29 · answer #1 · answered by Journey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is a workaholic. I don't know him but it also sounds like he is filling up his time with other things like he is avoiding something. A husband needs to have boundaries around his marriage and protect it from too many side distractions. He seems to have lost his sense of priorities and balance. All you can do is try to talk to him about it. If he clings too strongly to his work and "weekend "activities" then I would say you definitely have a problem on your hands. It will take further digging to get to the bottom of it. A very unpleasant task for sure. Good luck and God bless.
2007-11-26 12:56:22 · answer #2 · answered by haditforgood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should try persuade her husband to spend some time wif her. She should join him in church activities so she can actually have more time with him. She should try hold up the family even if things dont better. She must think for her kids, kids are the most affected ones if breaking-ups occur.
2007-11-26 12:52:26 · answer #3 · answered by chocolatesundae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bossy and moody and shout-y... he is not a man but a boy. but ur stock with him now so, do ur thing the best u can and keep on doing it. also if he is bossy, moody and shout-y, act the opposite of it (if u can).
2007-11-26 16:50:57 · answer #4 · answered by dani l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pray for him to change. Go to counseling. Confront him.
2007-11-26 12:49:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No where in this babbling did you pose a question.
2007-11-26 12:48:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She needs to tell him he might have others fooled with his hypocrisy but don't try that **** with her as she'll expose his ***.
2007-11-26 13:16:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She married him, she has to deal with him or divorce him.
2007-11-26 12:48:34 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋