look i was talking to my best friend and she was sad cause her boyfriend was bein a jerk right and he's always like this and i told her she could do so much better cause she`s pretty smart and everything and she was gettin all mad and was like your no help bye and i wrote her was like i always try to help but its never good enough for you cause she was already yellin at me so thats why i said that to her and she was like you have no clue what i`m goin through i don't even tell you everything that goes on so i wrote back and was like how do i help when you don't tell me everything ok then she didn't write back then i texted her a few hours later i was like look if i did anything to you i`m sorry and she texted back and said no forget it i don`t want friends anymore im gonna finish this school year and move back with my mom and it was just like everything in me wanted to just cry cause she`s been my friend for so long and i was like what ever i did i`m sorry and she was like there is jus
2007-11-26 12:34:35 · 9 answers · asked by boggabogga 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
too much drama here and its the only way to get away from him**(her boyfriend) and i was like you cant run away from your problems there will be drama everywhere you go and she hasn't texted back and its killing me i don't know what to do please help!!!
2007-11-26 12:36:33 · update #1
I would try and give her a day or two to settle down before I tried to talk to her again. She is just to hurt from the boyfriend to really think straight.She is hurt and maybe she knows that you are speaking the truth about the guy but maybe her pride is a little bruised.No one ever wants to hear a friend tell them the person that has their heart is a jerk...even if its the truth.I think she was thinking that her friend would maybe tell her that everything will be ok.Just give her a day or two and try again to talk,if that does not work give her more time.A true friendship will endure these things.Good Luck and just remember good friends are worth waiting for
2007-11-26 12:44:32 · answer #1 · answered by irish55_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but you learned a valuable lesson. When someone that you know asks you for advice, don't give it, cause as you said you don't know every thing and really can't help. We answer on here, cause we can give general help, not personal, like friends do. Just leave it all and let her cool off for a while, and see if after a few days you can call and ask how she is doing and if she would like to go do something, but not talk about the boyfriend. If she brings it up, just say you don't want to talk about it, cause you want to be friends. True friends don't stop because of boyfriends, or moving away.
2007-11-26 12:45:29 · answer #2 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this one girl who was my friend. yeah, um is your nicknameT.J? And your a girl, right? With short cut hair a little bit under the jaw line?Blind in one eye? Blondish/brownish hair? Has a 6 year old brother? Cuz this sounds A LOT like the story of what I'm going through right now. Only switched around people.
2007-11-26 12:47:58 · answer #3 · answered by Victoria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you've been friends for that long im guessing that this is just a simple fight..she probably didnt mean what she said...i doubt she will end your friendship over some guy..and if she does she will soon regret it..but for now if i were you i would just give her the space she wants..dont keep texting her etc. eventually she will realize that you are way more important than some jerk boyfriend and apologize.
2007-11-26 12:42:27 · answer #4 · answered by keep it simple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i say tlk to her in person about wats going on and it doesnt seem like its all about u right now it seems like she is yelling for help and major advice i say go to her house sit her down and tell her that ur one of her bestfriends and that she shouldnt keep ne thing from u and tell her u wanna know everything thats is makeing her feel that way and give her advice to help her through it if ur her best friend then dont sit there do something
2007-11-26 12:42:24 · answer #5 · answered by luvinuislife_16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's sounds like she's pretty upset right now. We all go through this at some time. Give her her space, but let her know you'll be there no matter what. It will probably pass anyways. and then things will be fine.
2007-11-26 12:42:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it looks to me because her boyfriend is being a jerk and your telling her so she is venting her anger on you.
you and her have been Friend for a long time so don't worry about that, let her cool down just let her know your there for her let her come to you
2007-11-26 12:40:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have more friend? and i dotn think shes losing you. shes just mad at you only thats all.
2007-11-26 12:39:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really reading all tht but if ur losing ur friend spend more time together
2007-11-26 12:36:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋