getting over him .it hurts?

Question

i went on holiday with my boyfriend. he is fifteen years older than me and we have a daughter.i have two other children from a previous relationship .everything went well for the first few days we had a great time .then i saw a change in him. he got really jeaulous i was having a good time i was just having fun trying to make my childrens holiday special it was there first time abroad .he moaned he was tired all the time stayed in his room and left our daughter out in the hall knowing i was not in the hotel myself he went for a walk outside . then he came to find me to blame me for leaving her .when she was in his full care .i was so mad at the thought harm could of come to her i dumped him there and then ,he ruined our holiday .so i left him at the airport on the way back and made my own way home . i could not belive the change in him while on holiday .i keep asking myself why .i no i propably did the right thing but it hurts so bad how can i get over him .i have loved him for ten yrs

Answer 1

time is the greatest healer.
did you try talking to him to ask why he was being the way he was?
depression can make people change. could there have been some reason he could be depressed before you's went on holiday. i know what he done was wrong, but everyone deserves a second chance. perhaps he was just somewhat 'jealous'. he might of thought it was a holiday that could of brought you's closer. maybe you spending so much time with the kids bothered him, he may have felt left out. not that you shouldn't be spending time with your children. i'm just trying to look from his side. you'd be best of asking him what his problem was.

good luck and i hope all works out for you

Answer 2

I'm not sticking up for him or anything because what he's done is bang out of order but has he had bad holidays in the past maybe somethings happen when his been on Holiday before and he just thought it would happen again you know what men are like they never let anything die. Has he try ringing you since you've been bk to say sorry or why he acted the way he did it sounds like you need a few answer before you can move on! Hope you fine the peace you need.

Answer 3

first off what did he change into? mean, hateful, what happen to your relationship before the holiday? maybe he has medical problem and didn't want to tell you. why don't you ask him whats wrong and make sure you want to leave him before you make that choice good luck

Answer 4

unfortunately, you pain won't go away over night. it takes time. focus on yourself and your kids. if you honestly think that it's over then you have to move on by focusing on yourself. Exercise or do whatever is cathartic for you, it will help.