Well, um, is it weird to lose your virginity at 13? I did last year, and i dont know if its something to brag about. im almost uncomfortable telling anyone, simply because it seems weird. i mean im mature for my age and all, but is that bad or no? =/
2007-11-26 10:48:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Honestly, it is too young and you rush yourself into adult situations before you have the means or maturity to handle them.
2007-11-27 16:34:35 · answer #1 · answered by Sirius70 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Statistically...no, you're about bang-on now-a-days.
20 years ago, it was closer to 16. 20 years before that, it was closer to 18...200 years ago, 13 for girls was normal, and 16 for boys...and it was generally on the marriage bed.
If you are uncomfortable with it...don't bring it up. If you can't find anyone you want to sleep with for the next couple of years, enjoy life until then, and BE CAREFUL! Trying to pay expenses for a pregnancy or a kid on a minimum wage part-time job is NOT something you want to try to do!
Incidentally, if you're asking if *I* think you should have waited, the answer is a simple "Yes." Anything before 16 is chancy at best, and anything before graduation is not always worth the risk.
2007-11-26 19:04:44 · answer #2 · answered by jcurrieii 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age really isnt the issue! at 13 you have absolutly no income! lets just say the condom broke and/or the bc pills didnt work (neither are 100%) and she got pregnate can u afford it? i dought ur parents will be thrilled about you haveing another baby in their house. now lets say she didnt get pregnate and the pills and condom worked, yeah you! what if this wasnt her first time? you could have gotten an std, condoms dont pertect u from all std's! thats more money down the drain for a little fun for a night. and you left an emotional scar on that poor girl, ur the guy ur respansable for what happens in the relationship no matter what!
wait tell ur married!!!
2007-11-26 20:07:16 · answer #3 · answered by ty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude it isnt bad the problem it what if the chick got pregnate can you support a kid and a wife at 13, Sex isnt about just sticking you junk in and leaving a deposit even if you had a condom on it could fail not all birth control is 100%. Lets say she did get pregnate you are responsible. cause it was your stuff that got her pregnate. your life as a kid is now over. you can try to make it to high school but probibly will not and have to flip burgers to support y'all. Ultimately it is her desision to keep or terminate the pregnancy dudes have no say in it because "Its her body" Before you stick your junk into somewhere it sint suppost to be think
Peace dude
curtdude
2007-11-26 19:01:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well yeah 13 is pretty young dude. dont be ashamed about it, it happened and its there to stay just make sure to wait juuust a little bit longer for the next time. if it makes you feel better, on tv a while back i saw that johnny depp lost his virginity at 13 also. but then again, im 16 and still a virgin.
2007-11-26 19:10:54 · answer #5 · answered by kid_wonder 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its too early but don't worry boy...I lost mine when I was 14 and at first I kind of regreted but now I don't regret a thing. I feel lucky to have experience sex at a young age because who knows..maybe you could die tomorrow being a virgin. so you should feel happy that you tried something new in life. Its part of growing up.
2007-11-26 19:02:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all sorry to say but u are not mature , if u were u won't lose your virginity at the age of 13 , u cloud of save it for the one u truly love and spend your life with,but i guess u are too young to know that , plus u better make sure that your girlfriend don't get pregnant
2007-11-26 19:05:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
well its too late to take it back right? id say to keep it quiet with people since you are already uncomfortable with it thought. you are not weird or crazy, sex is a nice asset in a relationship, so enjoy it. i'd wait a bit for the next time thought, maybe till your 16 or 17, maybe...
2007-11-26 18:52:41 · answer #8 · answered by luisfernu@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 is too young. at that tender age you hardly understand the whole picture. my opinion is that a girl should wait until she is physically and emotionally prepared to handle the consequences of a broken condom or faulty bc pills
2007-11-26 18:58:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's nothing to brag about. And certainly not very mature
2007-11-26 22:32:27 · answer #10 · answered by Terry 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋