Iz it bad to not have sex at 14 teen? And at the same time to say no to drugs?

Question

All my friends say im a bit-ch b/c i wont sleep with my bf yet and i wont get high with them.

Answer 1

say what?

but if your asking if its ok not to have had sex and not done drugs at age 14 yes thats a very good thing keep that up forever!

Answer 2

At 14 years old, I know having friends is important. But it is more important to have right friends. Choose friends that have the same interest and goals as yourself. Maybe you started out with friends that had the same interest, but evidentially they have gotten off on the wrong path. You do not want to take that road, especially at such a young age. If you loose this friends because you wont have sex or do drugs, they were never you friend to began with. But you continue to be strong and don't give into temptation. Speak with an adult

Answer 3

No it's not bad and I'm really proud of you! I was the same way. As I got older and continued to abstain from sex and drugs I found that other people really admired me for it and wished they had done the same. I didn't start drinking until I was 21 and I rarely drink now. I still have never done drugs or smoked cigarettes. I lost my virginity at 22 to the man I truly love and want to spend the rest of my life with. I don't regret the decisions I've made. Unlike others who made very different decisions and have not only regrets, but babies, drug and alcohol addictions and STDs. Try making other friends who have similar beliefs to yours. Maybe join a church youth group where drug free lifestyles and abstinence are encouraged. Best of luck to you and hold on to your convictions. You won't regret it.

Answer 4

Absolutly not, at 14 you dont even know what you want in life, I dont think anyway. Save yourself for your husband and let that special night be as special as it should be. And as for drugs, be smart stay away, Ive lost alot of family member do to them, I have 2 sisters (my only siblings) that I have no ties with what so ever because of drugs so be smart and follow your instincts. You have a whole lifetime ahead of you do you really want to cut it short??

Answer 5

ok so...
1) having sex at 14 will only make you known as a $lut. have some respect for yourself and your body and just wait. having sex isnt worth risking getting pregnant.
2) DONT DO DRUGS. I know someone who is what we call a "pot head" and he smells so strongly of weed that sometimes I start choking up when hes around.

Answer 6

Honey you are the smart one. Do not give in to peer pressure. They are not your true friends to try to bully you into doing things you do not want to do. Friends also do not call you names. I would find some better friends. You have your head on straight, be proud of that and do not go down the wrong path with them. It might seem harmless to them now but it is not and they will realize it soon.

Answer 7

Of course its bad! Your friends are dumb, and not worthy of your time or friendship if they tell you things like this. Wait to have sex, maybe later on when your older, or you could wait until your married. Its up to you, but just wait. And for drugs, they are the worst thing you can do to yourself. Don't listen to your friends...If they want to waste away their lifes doing insolent things, then thats sad.

Answer 8

they sound like no friends of your's. Don't give in to peer pressure. Friends come and go but your morals, memories and pride are there to stay, and if you sleep with him, or get high those things can seriously be at stake. keep fighting the good fight

Answer 9

You are in charge of your body and mind and it is okay not to do those things. They are trying to make you give in to the pressure. Stick to your morals, you will thank your self when you are not a single mom selling your body for crack.
Better to be called a "B" than anything else.

Answer 10

I'm 20, and still never touched a drug in my life.
I started having sex at age 16, and regret it...
save urself.