Okay, im 13 in the 8th grade and I always thought that I acted immature for my age or is it me?You see,I am one of those goofy,funny,girls that loves to make people laugh.I was wondering,how can i become like one of those girls that have all the friends,they are confident,and have wonderful personalities?I always am putting myself down because of my low self esteem problems how can i overcome this ?
2007-11-26 10:28:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you feel that you are not mature enough it comes with age so dont worry to much about it. some kids grow up quicker than others you are probably a wonderful person just stop putting your self down.
best of luck
2007-11-26 10:33:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not really sure exactly how to advise you to go about elevating your self-esteem, but it is vital that you do. In fact, it's more important than worrying about maturity...maturity is largely a matter of the passage of time and will take care of itself, but learning to be comfortable in your own skin comes with liking yourself, accepting yourself as you are, and resisting the hollow temptation to compare yourself to other girls. 13 is an age where being silly is par for the course. Did it ever occur to you that those 13 going on 30 year old classmates of yours may be faking their way through behavior they're not ready for yet, and mimicking things that will most likely bring them nothing but trouble and misery? That's certainly something to think about, isn't it?
I'm more than three times your age, but even when I was your age we all wanted to be older; now, most of us wish we could have some part of those days back again, if only for a moment. Don't rush your time away by trying to be older...you WILL be older for real soon enough. Instead, learn how to be your own best friend. That accomplishment will last you a lifetime. Good luck to you.
2007-11-26 10:50:17 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should live your life and enjoy who you are the personality thing just develops as your life experiences grow with you .. oh i was crying the other day cuz i didn't do things when i was younger .. don't waste a single moment wishing to be someone else cuz you are beautiful as you are ..and people love goofy funny girls who make them laugh ..
read and expand your knowledge
2007-11-26 10:41:37 · answer #3 · answered by Libra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not put yourself down so much..be yourself..If you want to get mature..get a job and pay bills..save money..buy your own car and pay your own rent..people will respect you more..
2007-11-26 10:40:44 · answer #4 · answered by love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get older. everyones like that now......
2007-11-26 10:34:11 · answer #5 · answered by !!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋