just a thought were having
2007-11-26 10:07:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
were married 4 yrs and very sexual out going and the porn thing and doll thing and dong thing and the chains and hand cuff things have all been done.. and as for a respect thing we dont see it that way.. we totally respect each other and our feelings
2007-11-26 10:26:28 · update #1
Looks to me that everyone that said "no" are letting their fear of "what if" control them.
Love and Sex are not the same thing. For those that say its nasty, is sex in general nasty? WTF, get over yourself. Live and let live.
I would give it a try, but I also know my wife is too chicken.
2007-11-26 10:57:02 · answer #1 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 2⤊ 3⤋
I would say NO!! and I a m a guy...
this year my wife gave me full on permission to go have sex with a stripper or escort. Even though she truly gave me permission for this one night stand, I just couldn't do it.
My view is that once you cross this line there is no going back.
Get some good PORN DVD's and watch someone doing it with 5 guys,,, you can fantasize that's you doping it
2007-11-26 18:19:35 · answer #2 · answered by jdesey 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Well for me and mine NO oops HELL NO lol
But if that's what you want go hard LOL
Just wondering what happens if you/him were to like it a bit too much pros there friend .....and what if one of you decide that its OK to play one on one with some one Else there can you handle that
2007-11-26 18:21:03 · answer #3 · answered by Myra N 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope. I think there are absolutely too many ways for this to screw up an otherwise good relationship. Talk about it in bed and let the fantasy work for you, but if you bring it into real life, you're asking for trouble.
2007-11-26 18:11:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Nasty!!!!!!
But in this world there are all kinds, to each his own.
OH, my answer would be NO, for sure. & my husband agrees.
We have an awesome sex life, & don't have to involve others just to get satisfaction. & We have No fears of anyone or anything.
2007-11-26 18:31:30 · answer #5 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
With this one you are going to gets all the guys saying "Yes, yes, yes" and all the gals saying "No, no, no." You figure it out! Only men are ruled by their little brains.
2007-11-26 18:19:32 · answer #6 · answered by LadyBug 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Just men? I might if there were a couple girls too, but thats because my husband would have to get a treat too. We have also talked about having a threesome and he isnt too thrilled with a guy so if there was a group with guys and girls he just might.
2007-11-26 18:14:54 · answer #7 · answered by hotmoma_37 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
some people wouldnt but iam sure there is someone brave enough to do it...
me i could with a threesome no more but like i said iam not brave enough to but hey...its just a thought...lolol
2007-11-26 18:14:53 · answer #8 · answered by shayhi 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm a guy and i would say no!It could put strain on your marriage ,your self image,your reputation,and possibly your health.Oh and it's gross and uncivilized.
2007-11-26 18:26:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
no , for one its adultry , two ... he better not want to share me or want me to share him , three ..i think it would show lack of respect ...four ... i think it could cause problems later i mean would he wonder if i wanted one of the other guys more than him ? ...five ..would trust be an issue later ? ...
2007-11-26 18:19:46 · answer #10 · answered by autumn 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋