she puts me down everyday and calls me fat when i am not even close to being fat. she also makes me do lots of chores, never quits nagging me and she hits me.. any advice? how to make her stop? how to not listen to her? my self confidence has gone way done b/c of her too. how can i get it back up? PLEASE HELP!!!
2007-11-26 10:04:47 · 6 answers · asked by KT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2007-11-26 10:08:04 · answer #1 · answered by em w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
calling you fat and makes you did a lot of chores and nagging you is a normal thing for a mother to do....but to hit you? i think this is too serious you know.....
let's look this problem in many sides okay....
firstly, have you done anything wrong that makes your mum did that?
no mother in this world would like to nag for nothing....
maybe you had make her dissapointed with your grades or something....
my mom always nag me for a good reason like to urge me to study hard and be a good person to others....
secondly, how serious is your wound when she hits you... what I trying to say that is that ''hitting'' can also be classified in ''beating'' that lead you to physical injury perhaps?
if she beats you continuously, try to seek for help by telling your dad or your grandparents or your teachers...
thirdly, whether your chores really burden you a lot? if it was really heavy for a normal age person like you to do that chores, you can try to talk to your mum about it.....explain to her nicely..
lastly, do you love your mum?
if you did, please stop being silly and start be a good child to her if what she has been doing to you is because of your misbehaviour....if not, you need to consult other people's advice(adult) if your mom still abusing you without any good reason...
2007-11-26 18:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by pimple_girl88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where's your father in all this? Can't you talk to him?
Get help - talk to a teacher, a guidance counsellor, a neighbour, an adult you trust. A teacher or guidance counsellor would be your best bet because they probably know who to call in such cases.
2007-11-26 18:16:54 · answer #3 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i honestly think you should call CPS or just tell your mother to stop if not your calling CPS.
or u can talk to a councelor at school or a teacher
2007-11-26 18:09:23 · answer #4 · answered by Kiwi Tiwi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to talk to someone who can help you out. then sit down and talk to her, tell her what you think or feel
2007-11-26 18:12:46 · answer #5 · answered by Promise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
police. if she hits u its illegal, at least a guidence counsler
2007-11-26 18:08:43 · answer #6 · answered by !!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋