How to choose me over him??
I am a single mother of two.I am trying to study to take a test so I can go to college..But all I seem to do is think about this guy.He is in my thoughts all the time..and the questions..what is he doing,why hasn't he called me...ect. is going through my mind all the time. He is in considerate and maybe thats just how guys are but he could call me at least once a day couldn't he! I know he is busy with college and work but I would find time for him...
Someone give advise on how to focus on me,my life, and my kids..(not his kids by the way.)
By the way I am 25 and hes 29.
2007-11-26 09:59:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is no easy answer to this. All you can do is get and keep your priorities strait. Your kids should come first so that means going to college is part of that so you can get a good job in order to provide a good life for them. Let him be the one to worry and call if he don't than maybe he's not the one. When women/mothers are handling their business it reflects. And men notice and respect that. Who wants to be with someone who slacks on responsibility and drops everything to focus on a man? Put all of your energy into your babies and your future let the men ponder over you.
2007-11-26 10:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by mariarh79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worry more about college and your kids first before this or any guy. You need to focus on getting thru college to give you and your kids the good life and never be dependent on any guy. You still have a whole life after college to worry about guys and college is going to be hard enough. It sounds like hes worried more about his own college goals than you. Follow your dreams and let no one deter you from them. Good luck and Happy Holidays
2007-11-26 18:11:43 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to me that you need to move forward with your life, forget about him and keep your mind on your studying and college , not even to mention your kids. I think from the way you talk that you would be better off without this guy. If he cared for you at all, I do believe that he would atleast call you.
2007-11-26 18:14:49 · answer #3 · answered by Teri M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide that no one is going to take care of you and your kids but you and worrying about what this guys is doing all day has to stop..why don't you meet someone who cares enough about you to call you from time to time so you can't focus on the important things in life.
2007-11-26 18:04:49 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. Jack Sparrow ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to get your head where it belongs right now...on taking that test so you can go to college.....worrying about whether this guy is going to call or not is obviously not allowing your to focus on studying....
2007-11-26 18:05:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Handle your business! Take care of you and your kids and if he's still around (or if you still want him around for that matter) when your done then great if not...keep it movin! Because eventually someone will come into your life that will have no problem handling his own business and supporting your efforts as well.
2007-11-26 18:27:25 · answer #6 · answered by Who Knew? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha........ its been a while since you've had your itch scratched, hasnt it ? ...................... Find him............ scratch your itch and get it out of your system and then get on with your school work hahaha
2007-11-26 18:27:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋