I never thought i was scared of dying until i reached my age and starting seeing doctors. doctors are very scary because i can tell when they are impatient and wish i would just pay up and go away. they seem to always have their minds on the watch on their wrists. i like it better when they don't bother to even pretend. they should have a professional communicator talk for them. they just know pills and platitudes. sorry, but if they were applying for a job, they would not pass muster when i was in charge. they tend to have severe attitude and communication problems. this old condition is not good unless you have loving family. few are blessed with that. when you realize that it is likely too late.
2007-11-26 09:58:12 · 31 answers · asked by JIM 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Senior Citizens
See a different Doctor - mine was a cool guy who always had a smile and time to talk until suddenly he became head of the practice, overnight he turned into a clock-watching misery guts who wrote out prescriptions without even looking who he was writing them for. I swear I could have sent the cat in there and he'd have come out with a scrip for antibiotics. Get yourself acquainted with one of the fresh new faces, the ones that aren't bored and looking forward to a nice round of golf in the afternoon.
2007-11-26 10:39:33 · answer #1 · answered by Debi 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have to see the practise nurse on Wednesday, I wish she would find some other body for these rehearsals, She will be wearing that uniform again(well it turns me on) I used to think she fancied me, but now she puts rubber gloves and a face mask on before I get through the door and why she needs overshoes to take my blood pressure I don't under stand. Funny thing is the receptionest will only open the glass panel an inch or two, A chap could get a complex, do you think the wife might have been gossipping Next time you go to your GP why not ask about happy pills, sadly you seem a bit low to me.
2007-11-27 00:32:22 · answer #2 · answered by inthedark 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be afraid of us, we are very kind souls. I do understand when you hear the word seniors it makes you think age and you are not alone alot of people are afraid of death but try not to think about it if you can.
If you feel that way about your doctor, you should shop around for one who has a little more patience and time. They are out there. I know mine is sometimes in a hurry but if I ask a question he stops and talks.I went through 3 doctors till I found him, keep trying.
I am one of the lucky ones who has a wonderful support system in my family and friends. Is there anyone at work or family member you can open up to like you have here? Why not give it a try, you might be pleasantly surprised. If not we are just a question or email away.
2007-11-26 18:52:21 · answer #3 · answered by doxie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No need to be frightened of us, we're just regular folk like if you clicked on any site. I hope we can help ease your mind.
I agree that you need to find a dr who is more compassionate. One who will take time with you and treat you well. It can be very frightening when one is sick and doesn't get the information you need about your condition and the options you have in dealing with the illness. I don't have insurance now, but when I could see a dr I functioned best when I saw someone who treated me as an individual. What works for the majority didn't always help me.
Best wishes in getting a good, helpful doctor.
2007-11-26 18:49:54 · answer #4 · answered by luvspbr2 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have to remember doctors are socially inept. They have been in school when the rest of us were out working our butts off. To them you are just a piece of meat. The older I get the more I realize that the only way they will see me is if I can't help myself anymore and they DON'T know everything. Too bad people over the years have stuck this wonderous title on them. They don't listen. For the ones that are wonderful..Great...you are few and far between. Misdiagnosed too many times to trust them anymore. My opinion and I'm sticking with it.
2007-11-27 02:27:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not quite sure how to answer this. I am 57, male, and work in a nursing home with residents who are mainly in their 90s and older. The GP visits every Tuesday and sees every resident (27 of them). He is really good with them (I sometimes do his round with him). But even so, some of the residents are quite convinced that the GP does not understand their bowel problems, etc. They seem to focus only on their bowels, their urine, catheters, colostomy bags, ileostomy bags, all of which are cleared and changed regularly. Hygiene is the priority, so is the total minimalization of any discomfort. But some residents don't believe that! I just hope that if i live to that age I will have more faith in doctors and careworkers.
2007-11-26 18:35:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am now lucky to have one of the two best doctors I have ever had in my life. My current one is a woman and she never makes me feel like she is rushed. She is wonderful. The second one was my obstetrician with my third son. He was from Switzerland and was an excellent physician. When malpractice insurance doubled and tripled in the 60's he was one who retired. He went into teaching medicine and the students he taught were very fortunate to be in his classes.
It is difficult to find a doctor who will take the time to listen to a patient, especially a senior.
2007-11-26 18:19:08 · answer #7 · answered by mydearsie 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I would tend to agree with you, my friend. But have faith and keep looking for the 'right' doctor. I had luck recently and FINALLY found one that treats me like a real person - spends time talking with me and just to me; explains things; doesn't laugh when I ask 'am I dying?' lol and gives me copies of every test result and explains them and the real deal.
In the end, I have walked away being more hopeful rather than thinking I have one foot on a banana peel and the other stuck in a muddy grave.
2007-11-26 18:02:29 · answer #8 · answered by sage seeker 7 · 8⤊ 0⤋
Don`t find it frightening clicking on seniors section, be thankful you are blessed to reach that moment in life! As for finding a good doctor you have to keep looking till you find the right one for you!
2007-11-26 20:19:03 · answer #9 · answered by sky 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
We don't bite, don't be frightened of us! Most of us have had our rabies shots anyway!
I worked for several doctors, some with dynamic personalities and some not so charming. You shouls find a friend who is satisfies with their doctor and try to see that doctor instead.
Many HMO doctors have time crunches and double book due to their contract with the insuring agency
2007-11-26 18:12:07 · answer #10 · answered by slk29406 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋