but when you get caught going through her underwear drawer, it's like some kind of nuclear bomb just went off??
2007-11-26 09:47:10 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Many things come into play here. First if she is a beauty queen and is the jealous type then she needs help and i think you can help. Psychologically speaking you may want t put some "fake" numbers in your wallet with a woman's name and her measurements.
the number should lead to Nunneries and Dial a Prayer, then on your cell phone call the police department and then sit back and see what happens.
But in my case I have nothing to hide and if you love her just put up with it and stop flirting with the cashiers when you go out and the waitresses and with the policewoman that pulled you over and............................... Take care.
2007-11-26 18:42:14 · answer #1 · answered by R J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's because we have those Y chromosomes. We can't refold the lingerie properly, and because privacy only works one way in many relationships.
She's free to walk in on you when you're in the shower, just try walking in on her; an ice pack will help reduce that nasty swelling.
To a certain extent, you're her property, her work in progress. She needs to be sure you aren't carrying cash for a night out that she can't trace, or didn't rack up a bill on your MasterCard that rivals the defense budget of a small country at a topless bar.
I'd ask what you were doing rooting through her underwear drawer, but the fact of the matter is I don't want to know. If you're not comfortable being open and honest with her, and she only wants you to see her frilly white things when she's wearing them, I've got a suspicion that the romance is more or less already doomed.
Relationships are based on trust and boundaries. This sounds like a case of lack of trust and boundaries. When you find the girl that asks you to go get something from her purse for her, you should be able to not have to worry about her digging through your wallet.
Have you considered the witness protection program?
JT
2007-11-26 18:08:32 · answer #2 · answered by jettech 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's NOT ok for her to go thru your wallet or check your cell activity.........just like it's NOT ok for you to go through her underwear drawer.
He's never dont it but I personally wouldn't care if my boyfriend went through my undie drawer because there's nothing in there but panties, bras, stockings and socks LOL. I wouldn't want him opening my mail or going through my purse, not because I have something to hide but because going through my purse and opening my mail would display a lack of trust in me on his part. If, for some reason, he felt it necessary to question his trust in me I would much rather he just talk to me about it and tell me why he felt that way. Openness and communication always work much better than spying and snooping!!!!
2007-11-26 18:25:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't ok for the boyfriend to go through the girlfriends things and vice versa...The only reason you would check to see what the other person is doing is if there is some kind of mistrust.
2007-11-26 17:51:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is NOT ok for any one to go through your wallet, email, phone, drawers, etc - not even a girlfriend or spouse.
2007-11-26 17:55:32 · answer #5 · answered by Rahrah 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That is NOT OKAY. It is an invasion of your privacy. And shame on you, looking through your girlfriends undie drawers!
2007-11-26 17:51:01 · answer #6 · answered by PURR GIRL TORI 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It isnot okay for her to do that or you to do that. This is a relationship with little or no trust. Time to end it and get out before it gets worse.
this relationshp is domed
Curtdude
2007-11-26 17:54:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
omg its not ok don't ever fall for tht trick god some girls r just over protective they r really sucky u shld just dump them cuz they think ppl are after u and they want u and shes just selfish she wants u all to herself now i'm not saying thats a bad thing........ but u get my point rite????
2007-11-26 17:52:51 · answer #8 · answered by ☮NeonZebra♥ 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Because women operate on a double standard.
2007-11-26 17:50:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
No.. it's not ok to snoop unless you have something to hide.
What does she hide in her underware drawer???
2007-11-26 17:56:41 · answer #10 · answered by cherokee_jack 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋