since we found out im prego. We went to my dads house lastnite left there at 11ish went to walmart to buy food and other stuff leaf there almost 1am. Ok i had to go home take a shower, find something to wear, iron and take a shower. After the doctor i had to go to work from 10:15 to 6:15. Before work i had to drop off a package at UPS, go to the bank,close a CD and return 3 movies. He on the other was off and had nothing to do. We got home brought last night brought the food inside he grabbed his ice cream and went to sit down. I said why you sitting down put the food up. He got so upset and told me im talking to him like hired help because i asked him to put the food up. I woke up the next morning and left he decided to sleep on the sofa so i left him there. Was i wrong. He got mad because i woke up and didnt wake him up to go to the doctor apartment was i wrong? He started tripping lastnight and didnt care about me nor the baby...
2007-11-26 09:38:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
left not leaf lol
2007-11-26 09:40:08 · update #1
yeah i was wrong for leaving him but he shouldnt have slept on the sofa
2007-11-26 09:46:18 · update #2
yeah i was wrong for leaving him but he shouldnt have slept on the sofa
2007-11-26 09:46:19 · update #3
i agree LD and we never go to sleep upset. i had him side of the bed waiting
2007-11-26 09:47:42 · update #4
you have the right to be upset but you shouldnt exclude him from the doctors appointment no matter whats going on. that is just as much his baby as it is yours and he has every right to be there and know what is going on. think about it, you'd be upset if you wanted him to go but he said no right?! it goes both ways...
2007-11-26 09:44:44 · answer #1 · answered by blondie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please talk to each other and get some outside help if you can. Tripping is no way to behave when you are going to be a parent. Its about time you both got on the same page. Marriage is about compromise. You have to help each other and support each other or how are you going to work as a team for your child. Sort this out now, before you are too tired with the pregnancy or tired with a newborn. There have to be some rules in your house that you both follow, or neither of you will be happy. If you can get someone impartial to help you to agree on things then so much the better. Don't go through your life together being aggravated by each other. Best of luck.
2007-11-26 18:02:23 · answer #2 · answered by elizabeth v 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think you did the right thing! He sounds so lazy! I would not allow my bf to get away with that, specially if I was pregnant. Plus, it was HIS idea to sleep on the couch. If he really wanted to go to the Dr, he should've apologized the night before.
2007-11-26 17:45:12 · answer #3 · answered by LD 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you wasnt wrong by leavng him there it was his choice to sleep on the sofa not yours the only thing i wud have done was wake him and give him the chance to go with you i would have told him i was going and if he didnt get up to go then i would have left him there all together
2007-11-26 17:47:35 · answer #4 · answered by gemma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you were not wrong men are that way. You would think they would step up when you are pregnant but they don't. I just hope this doesn't last your whole pregnancy because you don't need the stress.
2007-11-26 17:45:05 · answer #5 · answered by Lou Lou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be upset if he isn't helping, but it wasn't right to leave him out of the doctor's appointment.
2007-11-26 18:00:02 · answer #6 · answered by That's not my name 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be upset, sounds like hes lazy!
2007-11-26 17:51:43 · answer #7 · answered by ★Mandy(Mom of 2+TWINS)★ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you guys should get some sort of counseling.....wrong place to ask.
2007-11-26 17:42:25 · answer #8 · answered by rosa g 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
tell him how you feel...
2007-11-26 17:42:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋