Why do women pursue men that have NO college education?

Question

Then complain when their life sucks living in that crappy apartment in a bad neighborhood with no money?

Answer 1

because they have NO college education either. A lot of women these days are "surface skimmers" and can't see anything deep. They go for the plumbers, burger flippers and gangbangers because they feel somewhat "protected". These women need to grow up.

Answer 2

I think I see where you are going with this, but the question is not broad enough. I have a college degree, but I don't go out and pursue men that have a degree as well. If they have one, great. If they don't, but know how to take care of themselves..even better. Many times, common sense is harder to find than an educated person with "book smarts". Now, to go back to the beginning of this statement, when I was younger I found the men...or boys, that treated me like crap. They usually didn't have a job, and I did. If you're wondering why women go for these men..I can tell you why I did as a young woman. Men like these present themselves well in the beginning in other areas. They appear sensitive to a woman's needs, and when bad things happen, they blame it on everyone else. When you're young, and in love you wear rose colored glasses and don't see the bad things that are right in front of you. Eventually those same men that seemed wonderful, end up making the woman feel so bad about herself that she feels no one else would want her. It also has alot to do with how you were brought up. I grew up poor, and didn't know what else the world could hold. So, in turn I chose men that had the same background. Now that I'm older and becoming successful on my own, these men are an annoyance to me. I have to admit, women do stupid things when they're in love!

Answer 3

It isn't their husbands fault. Those women are probably the type that will complain no matter what, but do nothing to change their situation.

I truly believe anyone, no matter the amount of eduction they have. With enough commitment to change their lives, they can. With hard work, and the drive to do what is needed.
I have a college degree, and a lot of good it does, I'm a stay at home mom now. My husband didn't finish college, but we own our own business's. And he makes far more then what my friends husbands who have degrees do.

And there is no guarantee that even with a degree that things will be all that great.
A friend of mines husband was making 90k a year, and lost his job to down sizing. He is now waiting tables at olive garden. A lot of good his college education is doing him.

Answer 4

I don't necessarily pursue only men with degrees, but I have found that things have worked much better when I am with some one who has the same educational level / maturity level / commitment level as I do.

My bottom line is this as far as requirements: a steady stable job/career, a place of his own, his own car and commitment to his responsibilities.

I refuse to hook-up with some broke-down , in debt, lazy , unmotivated man who cannot take care of himself, much less me.

I have worked too hard to get where I am to throw it away on some bum.

I have dated some guys with no degree who are business owners and responsible guys who make way more than I do with my master's.

I would rather be alone than take on some sucker who cannot take care of himself.

Answer 5

Well, just because someone goes to college doesn't make then well paid and affluent. Most college graduates make $25k or so the first 8 - 10 years after graduation.
A man should not be defiend by his education but by his drive to succeed and his devotion to his woman.
I know plenty of people that have college educations and make a lot less than me and I dropped out of high school.
So, don't judge a book by it's cover.

Answer 6

My husband does not have a college education, high school only, and he's one of the most intelligent, compassionate people I know. We also live well, own our own home with quite a bit of land, show horses, travel, and I only have to work part-time, because I want to work-not because I have to. And, he's someone I can talk about anything from world events and history to South Park with-college men can be crappy providers, and human beings, too.

BTW-I do have a college degree. And being blue collar is NOTHING to be ashamed of. Uneducated does not mean stupid.

Answer 7

First of all, you don’t have to have a college degree to make money. I am not a college graduate and I make six figures.

The top ten richest men in the world don’t have college degrees.

I know people with college degrees, but not drive and have nothing.

It is a poor judge of character. That is why they live in a crappy apartment in a bad neighborhood with no money.

Answer 8

Sounds like you are jealous of something. I have a Masters but I know a lot of people with out a degree that make a lot of money and live in a better house than I do.

Answer 9

Because a college eduaction doesn't make a woman's p*ssy wet; his confidence does. And quite frankly, there are more men with less than a college education that possess confidence than a lot of the college educated men who feel so entitled that they expect a broad to just walk over to him and bend over and tell him "f*ck me." It doesn't happen like that, so grow a pair of nuts and step to women with confidence instead of b*tching and moaning about an indecisive woman's complaints.

Answer 10

I cannot answer for other women but my boy has two Masters, and I am catching up with him. Most people look for others who are alike. Maybe those women who pursue such men are uneducated themselves?

Okay, the truth is that only a very small amount of people succeed without having any education. Yes, Bill Gates and a few others are the exception but that doesn't make a rule! They are just a few people who made it but how many people fail along the way and never do? We never hear about them, so don't get into some kind of misconception or illusion thinking that Gates is an example that you should lead your life by! A very few people succeed without any education.

And I don't see anything wrong of getting a degree and maybe more than one. Life is about learning and understanding how much is still left to learn. Some people think that they know everything, and honestly, I feel sorry for them. I feel sorry for people who think that education is waste of time. Because you know what? You might learn from your experience and become a master in what you do but if your knowledge is not able to expand or understand a whole picture besides your little piece in a big puzzle, then you are lost. You will be stuck forever doing what you do right now for the rest of your life. And if you are fine with it, good for you!

Education gives you an opportunity to expand your knowledge, to learn how to look outside the box and make a difference. And if you don't have such desires, that's fine with me. Not every person is meant to do the great things in the world. Not every person leaves his/her city, state, country and go beyond and they still live their lives happily ever after.

But you know what? It's not enough for me. I want more and it is nothing wrong with it. If I could afford it, I would go for an MBA. I would go for more because I am curious and I want to learn. So even if I might not get an MBA, I will continue taking classes at night and juggling a full-time job and school because I want more. And if you think that education is unncessary, I feel sorry for you. You don't know what you are missing out. No matter how old I get, I know that after I am done with this degree, I will be back to school eventually again.

I am sorry that my desire for education makes you feel bad about yourself and give me tumbs down.

desnlori>> Does living in the illusion that "most college graduates make $25k or so the first 8 - 10 years after graduation" make you feel better about yourself? Look up www.salary.com for salaries of college graduates and high-school droppouts, if you want to get a reality check-up. In the finance/business/accounting industry, the starting salary of a fresh-out-of-college student without any experience is $53,000. It increases by 10% annually and if you earn an additional degree or get certification besides annual bonuses, benefits and etc. If you don't have a Bachelor degree, such companies wouldn't even look at your resume twice, not even considering inviting you for an interview.

Answer 11

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