How did you and your significant other decide it was time to have a baby? how did you plan? what ws going on in your life?did you make the right choice. My man is getting old and I have baby fever. what time is "the right time?" I already have a 2 1/2 year old (unplanned) and I don't know anyone who had a planned baby!
2007-11-26 09:26:41 · 4 answers · asked by 1 Hott Mami 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
My husband and I both wanted to wait another year and do some more travelling first, but last year we were in a bad accident where a semi truck lost its wheels and came through our truck. We both walked away with minor injuries in comparison to what the outcome could have been and we both decided that life is too short and too precious to wait thinking we will have another chance. It was a real eye opener for us, and it has been a great experience to bring us closer. We know that we made the right decision and look forward to including our future baby in all of our plans now as well!! We concieved in July and it ended in a miscarriage and it looks like we just got another positive hpt,so here we go again!! Planning is fun, although the waiting game to find out if it is going to be this month, is excruciating!! As long as the end result is positive - it is all worth while!!
All the very best to you!!
2007-11-26 09:43:54 · answer #1 · answered by waiting for my angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We tried to have a baby for three years before we actully had one. I had three miscarriges before we got lucky. I don't think there is any amount of planning that can prepare you for a baby. When we finally become pregnant with my two yr. old, it was the worst possible time. We were living with his family and trying to find a bigger house for ourselves and tada... prego! But we couldn't have been more excited because it's what we both really wanted. But babies are a lot of trouble! When my son was 4 mo. old I became preg. with my 2nd son, Benjamin, and if there is one piece of advice I have to offer it is this- make sure you are ready for two. My 2 yr. old hates his lttle bro.!!! He won't share with him, takes his toys, pushes him around, and it is a full time battle. Just be sure you are ready to add another child into the mix- very ready. Try babysitting another small child for a full day, see how your child reacts and treats them. Kids are very territorial and even though, hopefully, they will play together one day, make sure your'e good and ready for the First Years!!! Good luck!
2007-11-27 09:12:35 · answer #2 · answered by persephoneneal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just talked to my husband and told him I really wanted to start trying. Of course it took 4 months for him to agree! But we are finally tring and he has baby fever too!
2007-11-26 09:30:30 · answer #3 · answered by Ski Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after we figure out that we want to be together forever we then notice our life was missing something so we decided that we want to have a baby but so far we have no luck
2007-11-27 06:09:41 · answer #4 · answered by Mom of 2 w/ PCOS 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋