what's the big deal about back door s ex?

Question

I know it's more intimate, but physically, it wasn't all that. What do you guys think?

Answer 1

I love it but I'm a freak in the sheets... Lots and lots of practice and add in some vibrating toys and it can be very enjoyable for both people, i like him riming me before he enters it's a very intense orgasm..

Answer 2

People have been sodomizing each other from the beginning of human history and some US states actually have outlawed it in the past (I don't know how they would even control such a thing). It may seem like a gross notion to some, but to others it's downright enjoyable. I am pretty sure everyone tries it at least once in their lives and there are much worse fetishes out there that involve bodily fluids and ew.

Answer 3

Why is it more intimate...? I've never heard that one before... Hmm, interesting view.

If the guys too big (and you're married to him) then its not a good idea. You'll end up with (for want of a better word - I don't know the medical term unfortunately...) a stretched anus and, ew, leaky shits. If he's smallish or its not so regular, it can be kind of nice, or at least passable for the girl, and for the guy its waaay nicer, something to do with the shape and that its tighter. More contact, better texture, etc, etc, etc.

Answer 4

Like the other poster said to each his own....I personally love it, but not on a steady every day basis..it's sorta a little more pleasurable to me than regular intercourse....but the first few times I hated it, felt no pleasure since I was so tense and it hurt...after I tried it again I began to enjoy it more and more and no more pain like the first couple times either. Physically I can get off in a more intense yet different feeling than from regular sex or touching.

Answer 5

I think there's a few things about it that piques people's interest.

First, it's still pretty taboo in our society and the idea of doing something risque is a turn-on for some.
Second, it's a different sexual sensation that can't be experienced any other way.
Third, and this for me unfortunately is from hearsay rather than experience, but I understand that if done correctly and after you get past the initial pain it is an incredible experience.

Answer 6

It's usually far less exciting and interesting for the person being penetrated, but can be more exciting for the guy doing the penetrating simply because the back door is tighter. The guy who prefers it is not the sort of guy I'd want my daughters to marry - he's too likely to simply be using them as a c(u)m dump and not be into the marriage and the relationship. There's a darn good reason women prefer face-to-face!

Answer 7

I think it's more about the fact a girl is daring enough to do it that turns men on the most.

It is tighter and feels good.....but it should be clean and be comfortable "to a certain extent" for the girl.

I know some women actually prefer it.....

Answer 8

Definitely not more intimate. Guys love it because its something new and because they dont get it that often,its more exciting!

Answer 9

some lady's like it some don't it is up to the lady 100%
and romance is holding hands in the moon light and kissing under the stars....not sex stuff....wake the hell up........it is just a man thing liking it so much not thinking of the poor lady now i do know some lady's love it and some don't so there is the answer. it is for some and it for some it is not.......

Answer 10

It is not more intimate. I am not sure who told you that lie. It is just a snug fit. That is what I heard.