How many women have cheated on their spouse/partner and never told them about it? I'm not talking about a harmless kiss, I'm talking about going all the way and keeping it a secret. Why did you not tell your spouse/partner?
2007-11-26 09:01:11 · 15 answers · asked by open_phunguy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
So if everyone feels this way, how is it that affairs happen with women who claim they would never do such a thing.... just asking!
2007-11-26 09:11:03 · update #1
You will never get the truth it happens far more often than you will ever know... And i would hope they are not dumb enough to tell their hubby's, women are by far better at deception than men that's why the bigger percentage of us never get caught..
2007-11-26 09:10:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I have never done anything like that. However, I know several people who have, my very good friend didn't want to end her marriage after the excitement is over. But everyone else I know has ended the marriage whether or not the affair is over. I think that this is because, if a woman gets to the point that they have an affair the marriage is already over in her eyes. The affair may just be a stepping stone to moving on with her life. Men on the other hand seem to end the marriage less after an affair. Even if the wife finds out. Men want the thrill of the chase, but usually come back to their families. Strange, but in the situations that I am familiar with, True.
2007-11-26 09:19:44 · answer #2 · answered by julie A 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would never in my life cheat on a partner/spouse. I would try to fix the relationship, and if that didn't work I would get out of the relationship before resorting to cheating. That is the cowards way out.
My sister on the other hand, cheats constantly.... She has another bf in our home town (dating the same guy for 4 years AND living with him). She will meet up with this guy, spend the night with him, text him all the time, they exchange phone calls, etc. Her current bf has no idea. I think it's disgusting and I give her heck for it all the time, she sees nothing wrong with it though. I still don't understand how you could even imagine doing that to someone you love....
A good friend of mine recently cheated on her husband as well. She has suspicions of him cheating on her, so one night while out of town, she hooked up with some random guy in a hotel. I could never do that either - but then again they don't have a healthy relationship.
My aunt cheated on my uncle with a guy she worked with, after being married for over 25 years!! Now she is married to this workmate.
It does happen, but a cheater will be a cheater, those who don't believe in it won't ever do it. I know I will never in my life cheat, and I know my mother is the same way, so is my other sister (not the one mentioned above).
2007-11-26 09:08:51 · answer #3 · answered by Betty 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
What is up with people always asking this question?? No remotely intelligent person is going to post on an open website the details of their 'secret affairs'..
2007-11-26 09:06:22 · answer #4 · answered by Jenn 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I have never cheated on a partner and never want to, nor plan to. Maybe people don't like to admit it-they feel ashamed or guilty.
2007-11-26 09:45:35 · answer #5 · answered by But Inside I'm Screaming 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People think they are special and rules don't apply to themselves.
I used to date married women when I was single, because they were easier than single women. No commitment and plenty of interesting sex. It was all I wanted then and it worked for me for a while.
2007-11-26 09:48:08 · answer #6 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I never cheated on my husband in any way, shape, or form. Married 9 years.
2007-11-26 09:05:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm not married, but my sister is and she has not gone all the way, to my knowledge, but has flirted shamelessly with others. She doesn't tell her husband about that at all. Why? I don't know. I guess that she just doesn't want to hurt him or there relationship.
2007-11-26 09:08:04 · answer #8 · answered by Bunny 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have never cheated on any one. I think that would be cheating myself by making me cheap.
2007-11-26 09:06:11 · answer #9 · answered by Rein 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
NEVER!! I would not cheat on my husband ever!!!!!! Married 11 years and happy about it too.
2007-11-26 09:09:45 · answer #10 · answered by Sweet Momma 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋