And she move to another state. Does anybody know how to deal with missing your baby. He is the most amazing thing that happened to me and she took him away from me. She skipped town and text me that her and the baby moved. I knew we were breaking up, but I didn't know she was moving. I talked to an attorney and she says that she has all of the rights since were not married. Do anybody have any ideas or advice on what I should do.
2007-11-26 08:15:26 · 13 answers · asked by buttahball 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
actually she doesn't have all the rights until she goes to court and gets soul custody of the child until she does that the two of you have equal rights get a better lawyer!
2007-11-26 08:18:27 · answer #1 · answered by notyochic 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
While your situation is by all means difficult and distressing, the answer, I believe, is an easy one. If you have talked to your attorney and she says you have no rights (which I think you should seek a 2nd opinion on), the answer is that you need to move. If your desire to be by your child is real, that seems to be the only answer. A child growing up without a father is at a disadvantage in many regards, so your love is important and necessary. Best of luck...
2007-11-26 08:22:22 · answer #2 · answered by mattjlarson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to another attorney. I don't think that is true. Especially if your name is on the birth certificate. You really need to talk to someone fast. I am so sorry. This will be hard, but you will get through it. I commend you for caring about your baby, so many guys don't. If you are truly his father, I think you have nothing to worry about. You have rights. Just because you were not married does not mean anything. Good luck.
2007-11-26 08:19:51 · answer #3 · answered by treehouse lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your attorney is very wrong, you have rights, you are the childs father. Get a different attorney and demand some parenting time. Sorry you are missing your baby. Good Luck
2007-11-26 08:19:00 · answer #4 · answered by tarie75 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no rights. You will have to fight to prove your paternity. I would encourage being as cool as possible to the Baby mama. You should try and play to her side and get her to agree without the courts if at all possible. Like, look: He needs his father as well, what can we do to help the child as best as possible - we wouldn't want to hurt him. Hell, admit fault - do whatever to be as nice as possible. Do not be a hard head and threaten her - it wont work. Good luck.
2007-11-26 08:21:18 · answer #5 · answered by mylilbubbers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter what don't be absent from your child's life.always make an effort.as you know she has the wright and you cant change the fact that she moved don't dwell on that now you need to find a solution for the problem and that is what can you do to make sure your present in your child's life as much as you can until the child can make its on decisions
2007-11-26 08:22:42 · answer #6 · answered by mejrkitty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought that a father has a right to see his child, consult another attorney, get a 2nd opinion that sounds kind of vague to me.
2007-11-26 08:18:52 · answer #7 · answered by matrushka2525 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go back in a time machine 2 years and marry her.
Seriously this should be a lesson to all about sex outside marriage.
2007-11-26 08:18:38 · answer #8 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
it will be hard on the baby not knowing the father. see if you can get the mother to come to the agreement of letting you have vistation with him or something like that
2007-11-26 08:18:24 · answer #9 · answered by ►B r i t t a n yL a r a◄ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will have to go to court to get a parenting time order. Good luck.
2007-11-26 08:17:43 · answer #10 · answered by Marion K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋