What do i do, shes pregnet?

Question

ok im 14 and i went to a party and met this chik a few weeks ago. that night we did stuff and now shes pregnet. i cant tell parents cause they will freak so what do i do

Answer 1

Well, you have to tell your parents. Someday you will have to take responsibility for your actions. Today might as well be that day, since you tried to be a grown up. Grown ups have consequences. Get used to it.

Answer 2

I am not going to tell you to "Grow Up" or "Be a man" because the truth is what's done is done.

Based on the information you gave "doing stuff" only a couple of weeks ago is a little too early to know you are pregnant. Is her period late? Did she take a test? Did she show you the test?

I would agree with some of the others who said to have her take a test with you there. If she is pregnant she needs to go to the doctor. I would highly recommend you ask the doctor how far along she is and try to find out when she conceived.

As difficult as this is I think you should talk to your parents. It's not going to be easy and they are going to upset of course but if she is pregnant and the baby is yours you are going to need them in your corner. I would recommend you tell them everything you put here and see what they suggest.

I HIGHLY recommend a DNA test IF she is pregnant. Not trying to be disrespectful to her but if you two only met at that party and you did what you did .... who knows how many other times she has done that!!! Please try your best to think clearly ... don't get bullied!!!

Hope it all works out for you

Answer 3

Here's the deal: If your "man" enough to have sex and get a girl pregnant at 14, then you had better be "man" enough to tell your parents. Tell your parents. Just so you know. Your life is over. It's gonna be a hard life. No more school = No good jobs. No more goin out, No more parties, No more anything, That baby is now your life. You should have thought about all this before you had sex.

Answer 4

Get ready to lie in the bed you've made! Nothing you can do, but step up and be a dad. God I can't believe I'm saying this to a 14 year old boy... Your parents will know sooner or later.... Wait a couple months and make sure she is, then tell them. Do you really know for sure?? Are you sure she's not trying to 'trap' you?? Next time you are with her, have her take a test. You can buy them from the dollar tree for a buck, and they do work. Good luck!...

Answer 5

If she really is pregnant and it really is yours then you will have to tell your parents at some point. Maybe you and her should tell her parents first then yours. At 14 there is not much you can do on your own. You will need all the help you can get no matter what you decide to do. Good luck! Next time be more careful.

Answer 6

First of all if your only 14 you shouldnt be having sex!!! If you think you are the father you need to have her go get a pregnancy test done. Then go from there. There is a chance that this baby might not be yours. I think you should go tell your parents and just be honest with them. Being a young parent cant be easy but It can be done! You are gonna need your parents there with you. I cant imagine her parents being too thrilled with their baby girl being pregnant and it might turn back on you.
Good luck!

Answer 7

How many weeks ago?

You did stuff? i hope by stuff you mean you put your penis inside of her vagina because otherwise she is lying and it is not yours.

If i were you i would wait it out and see what she does or expects you to do.

I am going to assume she is around your age, at this age she might not have regular periods anyways, and if you had sex the stress of it might throw her off course.

Have her atleast take a pregnancy test in front of you. I mean, she met you at a party and put out, questionable morals right there, questanble if its even yours, questionable if she even knows for sure.

First deal with her one on one, if she TRULY is pregnant then get the parents invovled.

Answer 8

First, it is spelled pregnant. Ok, now you have to tell your parents, you are only 14 years old. Now is the time to become mature. If you were old enough to have sex, then you are old enough to accept the responsiblities/consequences of it.

Answer 9

It's PREGNANT.
She wouldn't even know she was pregnant yet if it's your baby...unless she was already pregnant when you "did stuff" with her.
What in the world were you doing at a party and having SEX at 14 years old?

Answer 10

Sorry to put this so blunt but its time to grow up.You helped make a baby now take some responsability.Tell your parents...comfort the girl...she is prolly a mess right now.