2007-11-26 07:57:33 · 16 answers · asked by b n r 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Don't let what you have been told by society conflict with your inner feelings...
we have been brain washed since we were kids; by religion, society, parents..
be yourself...
talk to other about it make friends from yahoo answers...
go to chat sites....
look in the mirror and tell yourself that there is nothing wrong with the way that i am feeling
Hope it helps
Peace and Love
2007-11-26 08:20:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I THink you need to find some therapist in dealing with what your fear of being bisexual men. I think you need to go about and experience. I have a bisexual female friend. She has explored throughout the years. First she was married to a male than in a female to female relationship. Now she is single again and being with male again. I guess only time can tell you. Happy Holidays. Don't swet it. Will yeah!
2007-11-26 16:12:41 · answer #2 · answered by angelikabertrand64 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What don't you like about yourself? Are you attracted to both sexes? Have you slept with both?? Someone once told me being "bi" is the luckiest man alive, or the most confused. If you are truly having a hard time seek professional help. A good psychologist can help you figure out who you are and who you want to be.
Culture, ethnicity, and religion can cloud who you feel is right vs what you "feel" is right for yourself. Be true to yourself and you will find an inner peace. Trust me, I search for 20 years before I found it. With the help of a great psychologist I figured out who I was and what I needed to be happy, not an easy thing to do with a lot of other pressures in life.
Best wishes
2007-11-26 16:16:41 · answer #3 · answered by flowerman 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you having problems accepting that you are a guy and not a girl? Or is it your appearence or your personality you can't accept. Whatever it is that you are having problems accepting, try and think more possitively about yourself. Gethelp from others and even seek advice on how to feel better about yourself.
If you hate the fact that you are bisexual; you are that way and you can't help it.
Hope I helped.
2007-11-26 16:05:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The first response was rather stupid..I hope that you know that.
The question is whether you need both at the same time, or go through phases which can take years with each.
You need to speak with a clinical specialist on this issue...because things come up in the bi-world that don't come up in the straight or gay worlds. being bi is probably as hard as being a trans-gender, but you are satisfied with your blue-print...it's just that the hot and cold taps aren't on the same side everywhere in the house.
Don't get burnt...you can modulate...and better than they can!
2007-11-26 16:09:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to be a bisexual male, then perhaps church may help? You cant stop the way to feel and if you feel a certain way then the harder to try to not face it, the more you'll feel it.
Thats the human way of explaining it.
Heres the psychological reasoning.
Theres no such thing as Bi. It's the way that we trick our mind to feel but in psyocology, there's no such thing because it's merely just what we want to call it as.
Honestly, I don't know if the psychology way is correct but was something new that I learn in AP psychology.
2007-11-26 16:07:23 · answer #6 · answered by winkoftherabbit 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are genuinely bisexual, and not using the word to cover the fact that you are wholly gay (as some young people do) then simply sleep exclusively with women -- you cannot change what you feel -- but you have a choice of who to sleep with if you are bisexual.
Email me if you need someone to talk to.
Kind thoughts,
Reyn
believeinyou24@yahoo.com
2007-11-26 16:10:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why cant you accept yourself. Being Bi is a wonderful thing. It opens up the door to many more options than being straight or gay. I think I am Bi and I am sort of excited and curious but a little c=scred to. If you really dont want to be Bi go get some counseling
2007-11-26 16:01:22 · answer #8 · answered by sguighunter 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You really just need to tell yourself everyday that you are a beautiful person and that you shouldn't be ashamed about anything about yourself. I am sure that there are people out there that love you for exactly who you are.. Don't try to hide who you are!
2007-11-26 16:02:07 · answer #9 · answered by pinkcosmo984 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't change who you are....
but you can change how you feel about it!
counseling is a great way to start. lots of places have counselors who work specifically with people in your situation, and sometimes they have like a hot line that has someone who can help you through crisis situations, and also to refer you to a regular conselor... so check in the front of your local phone book :)
2007-11-26 16:18:03 · answer #10 · answered by kamelia03 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋