well here it goes,
most days we me and my husband go out w/or w/out or child...
i get this.. either a crowd around making gestures,bumping into me,extreme staring,and then when it comes to our child strangers act like it is okay to speak to our child in such a way like they actually know out child.
the other day a family of women attempted to start an arguement stating" i was all up on - - - - head" when in fact i was watching out child and waiting on my husband and this female stepped right in front of me,i mean i could of licked her if i stuck my tounge out.. instead of her walking around(plenty of room) she decided not to.
and so i turned my head as she was doing so and then a large group of females decided to eyeball me and talk "smack"
2007-11-26 07:41:57 · 25 answers · asked by lala 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
yes i got ahead of myself,haha
has this ever happened to you and i would like to hear about it and how do you cope?
2007-11-26 07:48:16 · update #1
pardon my typos!!!
2007-11-26 07:58:34 · update #2
Some people will always be ignorant.... just be happy and ignore them as hard as it is sometimes....(first instinct is to slap her ***) its too bad people are like that...
wish you luck...
2007-11-26 07:50:25 · answer #1 · answered by oceanbunny 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what race you and your husband are but that doesn't matter. I'm sorry that the human race can't be more kind to people and treat them with respect.
My question for you is...
is your blood red? is your husbands blood red? do you love each other? do you love your baby? Do you feel the love God has for all of you? if you answered yes to any of these questions then who cares what those other people did. You are a good person and so is your husband. Together you made a baby and now you must raise that child so that it will be able to contribute to society. May God bless you to realize that not everyone can be kind and understanding. People have theire rights to be angry but unfortunately they take it out on the nice people like you. I hope that you and your family have a great holiday season.
2007-11-26 07:50:14 · answer #2 · answered by thedadof7 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry you are around ignorant people, We have a lot of social issues with this situation. Many people of all races, not just white and black. Love is love. I personally am attracted to my on race more so thna any but if things changed or my child decided to go out with another race, I would certainly not have any issues except to say that socity has issues and threfore things may be difficult. I am not saying it is right but practice this, just smile and walk on by because people who act like that are ignorant and remember, we are all God's children.
2007-11-26 07:59:33 · answer #3 · answered by Googler 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What is the question?
Are you asking are people rude to interracial families?
I have an interracial family and no ones rude to me or my husband. Or my kids.
But, then again, I don't tolerate rudeness if that was the case.
I tend to be very verbal without being rude. Not that I can't be, I just choose my bounderies. And I advise people don't cross them.
As far as my husband, he's 6'4 and 275lbs, so people aren't saying much of anything to him, they just get out of his way!
If you find that people are constantly being rude to you, maybe you should change your surroundings that constantly places that negativity to you and yours.
Good Luck
2007-11-26 07:55:18 · answer #4 · answered by lashawn0676 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should have smacked that lady in the back of her head, and as for everyone else, that just shows how screwed up society is, you just to constantly stand up for yourself and your family, or people will run over you, it sounds like the place you live isn't too friendly either, i never had that much of a problem as an adult.
2007-11-26 07:48:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
lala? Apologies but your Q is lah lah! It made no sense whatsoever, are you saying your child is of mixed race and you are being abused because of this? Why are you "waiting" on your husband? With the utmost respect your English and grammar dumbfounded me, what is "talking smack? Regardless..... Do not allow anyone to give you abuse, be polite and respectful to others and the majority will treat you likewise. Those who do not are worthy only of your pity or contempt.
2007-11-26 07:55:27 · answer #6 · answered by Willow 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Prejudice is not dead, contrary to popular belief and all the efforts to make it so. It is always something that interracial couples should seriously consider before marriage and children because it will affect them sometime in some way. Sorry but these are the hard cold facts.
2007-11-26 07:49:06 · answer #7 · answered by Free Thinker 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You obivously have a chip on your shoulder & are looking for a reason to start a confortation .You people need to put on yo thinking cap & get with the program or Hop Sange will make chop suey out of yo a**.They are on their way & they ain't shucking & jiving they mean business..
2007-11-26 07:50:58 · answer #8 · answered by ding-a-ling 3 · 2⤊ 3⤋
sorry but i have no idea what you are saying. you was on what kind of head. what does know out a child mean. wish i could help you, maybe you could rethink what you want to say and repost your question.
2007-11-26 07:49:17 · answer #9 · answered by BLOODHOUND 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You cannot hold on to your own Peace if you are leaving It to be in someone elses business! You have control over only what "you" think!
2007-11-26 07:47:23 · answer #10 · answered by Premaholic 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋