Is it normal to feel miserable at 33W. I am so over being pregnant. Can't sit, stand, bend over, dress myself. Tired of everyone including myself. Everything makes me want to cry or be angry.
2007-11-26 07:11:53 · 30 answers · asked by nicki 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Yes, very normal.
2007-11-26 07:15:34 · answer #1 · answered by Pam H 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my experience, it was completely normal to be miserable, angry, and cry a lot. I even asked my OBGYN about the mood swings. I would get so angry at absolutely nothing that I would want to actually hit something/someone. I never did, but the thought ran through my mind that I might actually feel better if I did. My Dr. said that it was normal and that it would get better. It did. Now I have a beautiful child and it was all worth it. Good luck!
2007-11-26 07:19:16 · answer #2 · answered by tallyhoer 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am at 35 weeks and I know exactly how you feel. Life is miserable right now.I am so tired of being pregnant. Everyone keeps telling me how adorable I look and I just want to give them the finger. I get tired of the same lame questions: Are you excited? How are you feeling? I mean seriously, what do people think I am going to say? Plus, I get heart burn all the time. My mom told me that when she was pregnant she told my dad at month 7 that she was done being pregnant and had changed her mind. He just looked at her weird.
I just try to keep reminding myself that in just 5 weeks ( a very short time in the entire span of your life) I will have a wonderful, precious baby to hold and it will all be worth it. So just keep that in mind and remember that you are not alone. Everyone goes through this.
2007-11-26 07:19:29 · answer #3 · answered by Emily 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh bless your heart! Lol. I just had my first baby in October. You just need a good pep talk. I got sick of it as well. My best advice is to rest, rest, rest. As soon as that kid pops out you will have to feed it every 3 or 4 hours initially (formula fed babies anyway, more frequent with breast fed babies.) If you have a significant other, I would suggest some serious body rubbing! If no significant other, go get a proffessional massage. Totally worth it. (Try a massage school if money is tight, they are normally better and cheaper than a spa.) If you feel bummed, take a few deep breaths and if that doesn't help, let the tears flow..you'll feel better after you let them out...Hang in there...the love you will end up feeling for your baby will turn you into a mush ball in the end....Best of luck!
2007-11-26 07:18:31 · answer #4 · answered by in2one 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is... My wife and I went through this around the same time. It is almost over and soon you will get to enjoy the labor that you have endured over the last 33 weeks.
She was a week early. Spend some time walking around and preparing at this point, like packing a bag for the hospital. This make make the last few weeks bearable.
There are also classes you can go to at the local hospital for free that will get you involved with other new mothers to help.
My wife was so ready to be done and now we have a healthy baby boy... It is very worth the feelings...
2007-11-26 07:16:52 · answer #5 · answered by berns63 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the Pregnancy Blues. This is perfectly normal...In fact, this is how I felt x10. I had all of the above, plus nausea the whole pregnancy...If I were you, I'd take advantage of just being pregnant because once the little one gets here, you won't be able to do ANYTHING. In fact, I'd rather be pregnant than without a crying baby ANYTIME. Take advantage these last few weeks. I promise you that you will see where I am coming from once little one gets home. Good Luck and take care of your self and the baby!
2007-11-26 07:19:09 · answer #6 · answered by ccrawf22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm only 17 weeks and I hate being pregnant. I got really sick at first. I would throw up 3-4 times a day and I could not even look at food. I wanted to sleep all of the time and everyone would just tell me I was being lazy. I'm better now but not looking forward to the rest of my pregnancy and I'm not sure I could handle having another kid after this one just because of the pregnancy.
2007-11-26 07:15:50 · answer #7 · answered by Baby Girl Rylin 5/3/08 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very normal... Most pregnant woman go through an emotional stage, and it will pass... If it helps just try to think about holding your baby, when the time finally comes... Unfortunately, there aren't any meds to treat depression in pregnant woman, other than time, and in due time, it will be born and you'll go into mommy mode and start caring for your child just as you would before you were pregnant... Congrats and I hope you have a healthy baby...
2007-11-26 07:16:38 · answer #8 · answered by Lupe S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The last month is miserable. In the middle of the night when you can't sleep take a warm shower. Try to relax. Your emotions are hormones. Soon you'll be nesting and getting excited about the birth.
2007-11-26 07:17:35 · answer #9 · answered by Liberty 4 all 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, those feelings are totally normal. If you don't get much relaxation or quiet time, maybe try to make that happen more. People need to give you space and peace and quiet. You need a comfortable place to recline during the day. Someone should be nearby to give you what you need. Hint, hint to the person who started the whole thing.
2007-11-26 07:19:17 · answer #10 · answered by iamnota_moose 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The last few week were actually my worst. I used the same phrase, I was over being pregnant as well. Just get as much rest as you can, distract yourself with things you enjoy, I was on bed rest so I was re watching Sex and the City, which always made me happy. It will be over soon.
2007-11-26 07:16:25 · answer #11 · answered by Nova29 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋