I know that only I can figure this out, but I just want some other people's opinions...
I have always felt 'different' from everyone else. Like anything a 'normal' person would do, I would do the opposite. I never really was attracted to guys, when I felt like I had to be, I picked a guy in my class who everyone thought was gay (he was also my best guy friend). I have had guys really mess up my head before, so maybe that's why I am feeling this way? I have felt like I could be a lesbian last year, but over the summer I sort of forgot about it. Then I re-found the bad t.A.T.u. all all those old questions came back. It doesn't help any that my friend says they are brainwashing me to feel like this. The only crushes I have had on guys, have been gay guys except for one cleb. I have never had a boyfriend or a girlfriend, so I don't know! I am just scaired and confused. I know everyone my age goes though this, but still. Please help! Thanks.
2007-11-26 07:07:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Also, I almost had a mental breakdown over this last week. I was with a lot of my family, and I know if any of them found out I was even questioning if I was a lesbian, they would totally dis-own me. So that's why I am so scaired and just freaked out about this whole thing!!
2007-11-26 07:08:29 · update #1
Dont rush things take your time and you will find the answer eventually.
And if your parents dis-own you because you are a les then they do not desrve to be your parents.
2007-11-26 07:21:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are who and what you are, and you like whoever it is you like. Why do you feel this urgency to label yourself? You're bound to meets lots of people, and many will be jerks and some will be special, regardless of gender. Life is trial and error, and it goes on forever. Don't take it so seriously. There's no final exam, no line you have to get into. Try to relax and enjoy the ride. It will sort itself out eventually.
2007-11-26 15:16:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay...
this is some advice my friend gave me to determine if you are gay or not....
can you picture a set of titties in your head right now?
do you like it?
if the answer is yes you are probroly a lesbian and that's okay. Check your phone book or talk to your school guidence counselor to see if there are any organizations in your area that help with counseling you and your family through this tough time.
2007-11-26 17:37:11 · answer #3 · answered by kamelia03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mental issues may be related to your sexual issues.
You should seek the help of a counselor to help you get back on the correct path of life.
Remember you are not fixed with a specific preference.
2007-11-26 15:16:37 · answer #4 · answered by Dr Jello 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋