Yesterday I decided to go to the Spa. I told my husband, who had the day off (Sunday), to do the following chores since the maid had the day off, due to her mother being ill.
1) Mop the floors
2) Load the dishes into the dishwasher
3) Do the laundry
4) Rake the leaves in the backyard
5) Feed the dogs, play with them, and take them out for a walk
6) Organize and clean out the Garage
7) Take the cars for a carwash.
He was only able to do 1-5! I was so angry when I got home and found the garage was still disorganized! I told him to straighten up his act! He just came home for lunch today and bought me a beautiful diamond bracelet and apologized. But THAT doesn't make up for him being lazy! What do you suggest?
2007-11-26 06:07:02 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
May I add that I was at the spa from 12:45pm to 5:30pm?
I think that is plenty of time.
2007-11-26 06:31:45 · update #1
This is totally crazy!!! I would never ask my husband to do all these things while I went to the spa.....SHAME ON YOU...!!!
2007-11-26 06:49:12 · answer #1 · answered by Foxie 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
You should be ashamed of yourself. How dare your husband let you talk and treat him like a child? You sound like a spoil brat. How about you write down all the good and bad things about your husband and if the bad over weighs the good then come back on here to complain.. Women like you make men give up on trying to find a good woman. It's not that serious, what is your real problem? Instead of spending your time at the spa you need to spend it on a couch with a Therapist.
If he would have done the whole list you still would have found something wrong..You're the problem, not him..
2007-11-26 06:18:22 · answer #2 · answered by KSR 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Actually, 5 out of 7 isn't bad at all. Are you in the habit of "telling" your husband what to do like that? Getting most of the list done while you're relaxing at the spa doesn't deserve punishment. And you don't particularly deserve a diamond bracelet because you're mad. You have a maid, so it doesn't sound like you work your fingers to the bone doing housework. That was a very generous gift your husband gave you. I hope you'll be more generous with the affection instead of anger.
2007-11-26 06:12:53 · answer #3 · answered by prissytwin 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
If you are serious here, I bet you don't even have a job and your husband is the sole bread winner. Obviously he took a day off from work for a reason - because he wanted a day off.
Everyone needs some time to recharge and to expect your husband do a full day work while you go get pampered at some spa is selfish. You are likely either very hot or your husband has low self esteem to put up with this crap.
Get a life
2007-11-26 07:25:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with you? Be thankful that your husband was able to do the chores 1-5 while you were in the SPA having a good time alone! There is something wrong with you, honestly! Can I talk to your husband because I need to tell him to wake up and leave you for good. After all he had done and he gave you a diamond you are still unappreciative. Get a life!
2007-11-26 06:13:55 · answer #5 · answered by I_Rockzzz!!! 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should get a clue lady and stay home from the spa...What are your arms and legs broke that you cant do any of the chores? How hard would it be for you to load the dishwasher or feed the dogs mop a floor?? If my wife gave me a list of chores to do while she was at the spa I would tell her where she can stick that list!!! Must be nice to be a spoiled rotten lazy women!!!
2007-11-26 06:32:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
How do you expect him to get all of that done before you get back from the spa. Your husband is not lazy, if he was he would not have done the 5 things you asked him. Any way he isn't used to doing anything any way you both have a MAID. You should be saying "Thank you baby for getting the things done that you did. And thank you for the DIAMOND BRACELET." Give him a brake lady, you have a WONDERFUL husband. Next time let him go golfing, and see how much of that stuff you get done.
2007-11-26 06:24:45 · answer #7 · answered by JustMe 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I suggest you:
1) Stop being his mommy.
2) Appreciate the things he does and not rag on him for the things he doesn't.
3) Get a job.
4) Thank your lucky stars you have a maid.
5) Lower your standards.
6) Apologize to him.
If you had left ME that list, nothing would've been done. And by the way, i'm not lazy.
2007-11-27 01:01:05 · answer #8 · answered by Jack01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you get over yourself. Your husband is not your maid. Be grateful that he did anything. Remember it was his day off too. He could have sat around and watched football all day. Ungrateful can you be?
Edit I don't give a damn if you were there from 9am to 5pm. You are still being an unreasonable and ungrateful little *****. I agree w/ the people who are saying that your husband needs to leave you. I usually don't condone affairs, but I wouldn't blame the guy one bit for getting some on the side. Since your such a cold hearted b-tch.
2007-11-26 06:11:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
A diamond bracelet doesn't make up for someone being lazy? Good heavens are you a brat! You have a MAID for gosh sakes. I couldn't even get that much stuff accomplished in a day, and I don't have a friggin maid. Get over yourself.
2007-11-27 02:11:31 · answer #10 · answered by The Mrs. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a lot to do in one day since you included the laundry and the garage, but on the other hand he could have done at least 5 of them with no problem.
I have come to find out that men are hard to get through to sometimes. You should thank God that you have a housekeeper because that problem would be worse if you didn't.
2007-11-26 06:21:55 · answer #11 · answered by Keke 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋