Ok.. I just checked babycenter.com and their ovulation calculator..
it says my most fertile time frame is the 22nd-27th of this month (last period the 11th of this month).. today is the 26th. It would be perfect timing for a pregnancy.. right?
I had unprotected sex twice earlier today.. both times he came inside me. omg omg.. I am such a dumba**.
I already have a 1 year old!.
He told me that when we decided to have sex.. that he'd use a condom cause I am not on B/C.. and well.. he didn't.. AND he came inside of me.. WHY? He keeps telling me that he is wanting to get into a relationship with a girl because he has been single for 10 months and is sick of it.
So.. what I am thinking is.. is he WANTING to get me pregnant so in that way I have to be in his life???. I am kinda confused and don't know what to think.
2007-11-26 05:23:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
There is no other girl involved in this situation.. I don't know where one of you got that from. I met the dude 2 weeks ago.. had unprotected sex twice early today.
WHY would he say that when we do have sex, he is going to wear a condom.. then he doesn't and when I freaked that he came inside of me.. he was all "whats wrong??".. then he is all.. " Its very hard for me to have kids" one of his ex's got pregnant from him.. aghhh!
2007-11-26 05:43:44 · update #1
OK! I think that you may be calculating your ovulation because -
1. You want to get pregnant
OR
2. You don't want to get pregnant and you don't want to use hormonal bc.
I understand. I'm in the same boat. I calculate my ovulation so I am aware of my fertile times and I am completely OVER birth control. I want to feel natural and take control of my fertility, like yourself.
Now, If you had sex the first time, and he came inside of you, YOU KNOW he will do it again if you don't tell him not to. Guys love not pulling out.
Think of this. Do you want to get pregnant?- Don't take the morning after pill. If you are unsure, go get the pill and try and be safe next time. I know you don't want to go through an abortion if you get pregnant and FREAK out later! (It's the worst)
ABOUT THE DUDE. He should of asked you first. You never know with guys. They can be pretty ignorant about conception and ovulation if you don't tell them. If you want to know if he is being ignorant or completely aware, you got to talk to him. Don't be scared. It should be liberating. It's scary, but if he is complaining of not wanting to be single anymore, you have ever right to let him in on your biology. If he can't handle that....he is stupid and you don't want to be taking care of two kids.
2007-11-26 05:49:48 · answer #1 · answered by I'm Sweating 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ya know the V8 commercials where the people who get rid of their vegis get hit in the forehead....pretend I am doing that to you right now! I am assuming you aren't with the father of the 1 year old and here you are yet again putting yourself in the same position yet again. How many baby daddies will it take for you to grow up??? From what I read, you are not even seriously involved with this dude and are casually seeing him and having sex with him...rather irresponsible for a single mother if you ask me, who am I to judge though. You don't even know this guy and now you are PROBABLY pregnant!! Ya know, KNOCKED up was JUST a movie...crap like that doesn't really happen and if it did my jaw would be dragging the ground! I say find out if you are preggers for sure or not...in the mean time talk to the fool about getting serious and whether he wants kids or not (get to know him!!). Most guys are just looking for a good piece of meat and will drag a girl on just to get that, been there and regret those choices! STOP having sex with him and see if he even bothers coming around, that will prove himself to you. As for you, it is high time you get a grip and act like what you are...A SINGLE MOTHER! Honey adding a second child into the loop being single will kill you! My daughter is 2 and I am expecting #2 soon, I am already getting flashes of hell...not that I do not love my children because I do! My husband can't do much with my 2 year old because she won't let him, I am stuck with most of everythign that has to do with her which sucks and we are trying to change that. They do not call them the terrible 2's for nothing you know...THEY ARE AWFUL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-26 05:50:32 · answer #2 · answered by LosersSuck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not wanting to get pregnant you need to be a women and get on some form of birth control and not sleep with men who refuse to wear condoms.He could have a STD for all you know.
2007-11-26 05:30:21 · answer #3 · answered by Ms.Danielle 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes indeed, WHAT ARE YOU THINKING!! Why do you care what he thinks, YOUR the one who's going to be impregnated. YOUR the one with a child already. YOUR the one who will have to deal with the consequences. He on the other hand, will find some other dimwit to lie to and have unprotected sex with.
Yes indeed, ...... WAKE UP!!!!
2007-11-26 05:38:15 · answer #4 · answered by M J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, you could be pregnant.
and tell him, that if he doesnt use a condom, then yall arent going to have sex.
and getting you pregnant isnt going to make you be with him.
btw, i had unprotected sex a lot, so i feel stupid right now too. but im only sixteen. :[[
2007-11-26 05:29:21 · answer #5 · answered by Brandi M 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to get yourself on birth control...no condom...no sex...especially if he is sleeping with this other girl you are opening yourself up to a host of std's.
2007-11-26 05:28:25 · answer #6 · answered by mommy_2_liam 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
today - then if you dont want to fall pregnant go and get the morning after pill from the dr asap
2007-11-26 05:28:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now if you knew he didn't wear a condom the first time, then why did you let him ejaculate in you the second time...its possible yoiu just may be...hope you are not for your sake....
Oops you did it again....
2007-11-26 05:31:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
just cause that site says your ovulating doesnt mean you are head to planned parenthood and get the morning after pill. cant believe i just said that
2007-11-26 05:29:49 · answer #9 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get some birth control and tell buddy to find someone else to do that to. you don't need a child to be with someone.
2007-11-26 05:31:48 · answer #10 · answered by NikkiO 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋