our baby died inside of me when it was only 10weeks we found out at our 12wks scan on the 22/11/07. i had a d&c on the 23/11/07 we wre told we can start trying for another baby when iv'e had my next first period in between 4-6wks. if we make love before then can i still get pregnant??? and if i do get pregnant before my first period would this cause any problems to our baby if we concived?? if so then what would be the risks ????? please give us some advice or any web site contacts that you know of that may be able to help us. x x x
2007-11-26 01:47:35 · 7 answers · asked by Kelly S 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I'm sorry to hear about your loss. My wife has had recurring miscarriages, and a couple the required DNCs. We were always told by our doctor to wait 2 cycles before trying again. Not that we listened very well. All I can say is that our daughter was conceived in the cycle immediately following a miscarriage. She was full term and had no issues... Healthy, wonderful 2 year old now.
As for the technicalities of risk, I'm not qualified to speak to that.
BEST OF LUCK!!!
2007-11-26 01:55:44 · answer #1 · answered by NH_MCD 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, yeah u r best waiting till after your first period. I had a missed miscarriage in july and only found out at 12 week scan. My baby had died at 9 weeks. Its so heartbreakin an you need time to get over that before you begin to try an concieve again. I got pregnant 6 weeks after miscarriage and im now 15 weeks pregnant an baby is fine!!! Good luck xx
2007-11-26 02:30:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have been told not to have sex for 2 weeks after and then wait until you have had another period before trying. this is because you have to give your body time to recover, not only physically but emotionally. Also if you wait until after your period then you will be able to determine the baby's delivery date
2007-11-26 02:01:47 · answer #3 · answered by lynsey h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Miscarriage rate is high if you get pregnant right after having a miscarriage. Give your body time to heal before you try to get pregnant again.
2007-11-26 01:53:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well your body will know when its ready.
My Dr. said to wait 3 months for my body to adjust and do its thing. I got pregnant in 2. And everything went fine:-) I'm now a mommy of a beautiful 3 year old daughter who means the world to me!
2007-11-26 01:52:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you really want to have a baby, but what can we tell you that your doctor hasn't already? Your body needs to heal from the d&c, to give your next baby the best possible place to grow. Good luck!
2007-11-26 01:56:28 · answer #6 · answered by Tiss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The health of your uterus might not be up to par- but generally you get pregnant right away after an early miscarriage and it has no effect on anyone but your body.
2007-11-26 01:50:33 · answer #7 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already said QUOTE: we were told we can start trying for another baby when iv'e had my next first period in between 4-6wks
Is this not the answer you are looking for, were not doctors on here so you should listen to what yours have told you already, they aren't telling you for no reason
2007-11-26 01:51:13 · answer #8 · answered by ✿Regina Felangie✿ 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋