Do you believe that relatively close friends are necessary to get through college?

Question

I'm a junior already, and I've found it hard to find common interests with people, especially since my university is primarily a research institution where everyone's so focused on their academics and you feel pressure if you're not totally passionate about your academics.

I'm starting to wonder if I'll even be able to get through, and getting through's my priority, not outstanding grades. Usually my interaction with people is just a meal once every two weeks maybe and then I just spend the rest of my time in my room or at the library. Maybe I just need to talk more to people around me in class, meet more people.

The thing is that I expect this from my university, since it seems geared toward really independent thinkers who like to work alone. I'm not even sure if my personality type is meant for a strong network of people to support me. I think this transferred from high school, where I dealt with all my stresses myself and managed fine. But college is a lot different.

Answer 1

I'm not sure if you need them to get through, but life is a lot more enjoyable if shared with others, rather than fighting through it alone. furthermore, in most disciplines, who you know eventually matters a great deal, often more than what you know. I would suggest that you put some effort into learning how to interact better with the rest of society. You can do it in measured doses (I know that I'm a very independent person too, but I really value my close friends), but for the sake of your future, I would advise you to talk to someone in your counseling center about this.

Answer 2

Happiness will you get you a lot, and it seems like you need a little bit of social interaction to be happy. So, go for it! Talk to those people that seem nice, around you. :) No harm in chatting with someone or asking them if they want to hang out some time.

I don't think that you need friends to get through college, but it's been said that people do need social interaction with at least someone in their life. I wish you the best, and good luck! :D

Answer 3

Well dude, sounds to me like having a load of friends isn't your style. Being social doesn't mean that you need to be yapping your butt of every day. Just chat with people everyonce in a while like you do now and you'll be fine.

Answer 4

yes