2007-11-26 00:37:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My boyfriend has cheated numerous times and I usually bust him because I trust my instincts and check into things. Trust your instincts and investigate, just make sure you really wanna know the answer.
2007-11-26 00:57:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try finding the truth behind you intuitions before making a war.
the signs of cheating are pretty much clear. Their hours at work change all of a sudden, they make excuses as to why they have to be here or there and weren't before. They have strange phone calls, or you get hang ups on the phone. They either don't want sex any more or they are all of a sudden wanting it ALL the time. They start to show a difference in the way they dress, or even comb their hair.
You'll know if you watch for all the signs,. If you then suspect....have the TALK!!
2007-11-26 08:49:57 · answer #2 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't "shake" any feeling, unless you are certain it is unfounded. Rather than assume his innocence, chances are that if something feels "off" then it is! Start checking up on him without being obvious about it, and hopefully you will find that your fears are unfounded. And, a good man won't cheat just because you falsely accuse him of it. Instead, a good man will prove to you that he can be trusted.
2007-11-26 08:50:48 · answer #3 · answered by Marina 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have hard evidence that he is cheating then you need to trust him. Intuition and gut feelings are typically products of self-esteem issues and paranoia. If you keep pushing him suspecting that he is cheating then he eventually will. If a man keeps getting accused of something that he isn't doing then he eventually will. We get the feeling that if we are going to get blamed for something all of the time then we might as well experience the fun of actually doing it. Strange logic, I know, but it is just true.
2007-11-26 08:43:51 · answer #4 · answered by No one 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have any evidence that he is cheating on you then stick it to his face. If not then you just have to trust him. Don't worry if he does some weird things some men are like that. Of course if you told us what type of weird thing then we could give you a better opinion of whats probably going on.
2007-11-26 09:04:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't accuse, ask. Your feeling can't be totally wrong, especially if he is acting weird.
2007-11-26 08:56:53 · answer #6 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋