I am getting married this weekend and my fience dosen't tell me that he loves me the way he use to i always have to tell him first and he is very quiet this days and he worries me a lot, he does not talk to me the way he used to i am confused and dont know what to do i love him so much...
2007-11-26 00:35:46 · 7 answers · asked by Thembi N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He may be stressed or nervous. If he's doubting marriage then you need to talk to him now. It's better to know this before the wedding than after the wedding. Talk to him. Tell him that you've noticed he's acting different lately and want to know what's wrong.
2007-11-26 00:43:32 · answer #1 · answered by Rockit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
May be he's having second thoughts? He could be nervous about getting married. It's not just a big day for the brides you know.
If I were to be getting married to a man who had stopped telling me he loved me, I'd be the one putting a hault to the wedding! If it's like this right before the wedding honey, have you considered what it will be like after the vows?
Cancel the wedding. If and when you know for sure, just up and elope so you don't have to mess with all the wedding planning.
2007-11-26 08:57:20 · answer #2 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably just nervous about the upcoming wedding. Once that is past he will probably go back to his old self. I think it is normal to be nervous...wonder if you're making the right move, etc. Just what people go through, doesn't mean they don't love their soon to be spouse.
2007-11-26 09:07:08 · answer #3 · answered by grneyes8621 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may just be wedding jitters but you two need to have a serious conversation before you say "I DO" and then end up in divorce court...
2007-11-26 08:54:31 · answer #4 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all stop nagging him to said that he love you. that is one thing we men doesn't like..to be nag and force to said what you want to hear...period. what I suggest to you is to sit down and talk to him. seen to me that he is getting stressed or nervous about getting married. some men doesn't have a problem with it and there are some do have problem with it. just take his hand and look him into his eyes and said, are you nervous with a gentle smile.
2007-11-26 09:02:51 · answer #5 · answered by Thomas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is HE'S A MAN!!! MEN GET THAT WAY SOMETIMES, but you need to talk to him about it! he may be jittery about the wedding!! not that he is having second thoughts, but thing effect people differently
2007-11-26 08:44:50 · answer #6 · answered by angelbecky32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't push saying " i love you"
just wait if you really feel that he loves you.
men don't think saying love is important like wamen do.
2007-11-26 08:44:44 · answer #7 · answered by jessica k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋