do you ever feel like a nobody?

Question

I feel like one today... =(

Answer 1

I feel like nobody when what I plan does not fall through, when whatever I choose I could not have, and whatever I decide upon fails to take my out of the dilemmas of my life.

I feel like nobody when the best of my efforts yield a little, or nothing at all, when my resolutions and my resolves, I see going downstream sodden, unfolded and flat like a wasted paper boat, when it rains and I am caught without an umbrella over my head, or when I see no tree or any shad to rest under along the longest stretches of the paths ahead that I have to follow.

I often feel this way when I cannot explain why I am unhappy; why do I become suddenly sad to feel downtrodden and smashed; why do I always want things I cannot have, and let go of things that had better had to myself; when I am without friends, without time, without means, without home, hope or a aim in life, I feel this way, I feel like a nobody then.

Answer 2

Yes, totally. I feel extra crap when I watch films or documentaries about real life situations such as Hotel Rwanda etc and I see all these amazing things people are doing for each other. I hate the fact that I didn't train to do something more worthwhile such as going into the medical profession or working with children. The fact that I work for my Boss (with his smug melon shaped head) and line his pockets sometimes makes me want to shove this pen up my nose. So yes, in answer to your question, I do feel like a nobody sometimes.

Answer 3

Yeah, I mope around for a little bit till I realize if I think it then I am it. So all I can say is cheer up and trust me, someone out there is thinking you mean something to them. If youre still down about it, go out and volunteer at an old folks home or do something to put a smile on somebodys face. Making someone smile always makes me feel better about my existence.

Answer 4

We all have nobody days! But we're all somebody! Just don't let the nobody days beat you! Keep telling yourself you'll be somebody again tomorrow! It works for me. Chocolate is my best friend on the nobody days and the whole world is my best friend on the somebody days!
Even when you're nobody you're still somebody and you're special xxx

Answer 5

Everybody is a nobody to somebody. What is important is that YOU don't feel like a nobody to yourself, as long as you do it doesn't matter if anybody who's anyone thinks you are a somebody..

Enough "...body" words in that post? :p

Answer 6

i used to experience this type while i substitute right into a young person. and that alter into between the motives why i substitute into depressed. yet then, issues have been given greater perfect...i matured, have been given married and now i'm happier than i ever substitute into! i'm sorry you're dealing with this, and have faith me, i comprehend it sucks. the only ingredient i will say is cling in there and each little thing would be positive

Answer 7

In my opinion you and I and every one else are all "nobody" and "somebody" at the same time!

I think we all become a "somebody" when we make a connection with another person... two nobodys connect and they make a somebody! Or a nobody and a somebody connect and both are then a somebody.

Answer 8

We all have those days. I would talk to someone about it. Why do you feel this way? Did something happen? Hey its okay. We all have days where nothing seems right but don't give up on yourself.

What makes you happy? Here's something that might cheer you up. Its Jeff Dunham and his comedy. I always get a laugh out of him

Part 1 with Walter:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1kXOg23pGeA

Part 2 with Walter:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=67XTB9fytdA&feature=related

Part 3 with Walter:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ua0_88OwrRs&feature=related

Part 1 with Peanut:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IZjMgbRUsZM&feature=related

Part 2 with Peanut:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EpRW8jh8AgY&feature=related

Part 3 with Peanut:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5A0WHfCBNi8&feature=related

Hope this cheers you up. But listen things will only get better if you do something about it. But if I know the exact problem I can maybe help you out. But hope the youtube videos cheered you up a little bit :).

RK

Answer 9

When I feel that I'm nobody,
I feel that I'm a zero,
Zero the perfect start for something new.
THINK THE POSITIVE SIDE OF THE BAD MOMENTS

Answer 10

Only you can make yourself nobody. But sometimes i do feel that way when i look at the stars. do something so you can feel accomplished