this is my first pregnancy. i'm at the end of week 14. i had ultrasound last Friday and the baby was fine. i've been blessed by an easy pregnancy with no sickness (to be honest i had some vomitting for two weeks) or spotting. anyways, i had sex with my husband two days ago and it was kinda hardcore (he was on the top) so my body was moving with him so hard and fast....you know!!
could that harm the baby as i had little cramps afterwards for 2 hours (the same cramps i have sometimes due to uturs expanding...i guess).
now eveything is back to normal but i have the idea that my baby died that can't leave my mind. do you think hardcore with movement(doesn't involve hitting my belly) could make the baby move and etc.......?
plus my husband cums inside me? is that no good for the baby and the prgnancy in general?
please don't tell me i should go to doctor but tell me if the hardcore isn't good for the baby or not
2007-11-25 20:43:09 · 12 answers · asked by hiba 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
although there is no spotting but if the baby died what will happen inside you? i mean is there any signs? how you will know?
2007-11-25 20:53:05 · update #1
Your baby is more and likly fine.....if you were losing your baby or had lost your baby then you would bleed heavily at 14 weeks you may even have to go for a D'n'C .... there is pleanty of support inside your tummy for baby.....sex is actually good for baby and good for you during pregnancy.....i wouldn't go mad at it or anything take it handy no more hardcore stuff but its not bad for you also sperm is also good helps to soften the musles down there to help with easy delivery!!!
talk to your doctor they will put ur mind at ease it wont matter wat anyone says on here they wont be able to help you like the doctor will!
2007-11-25 21:17:02 · answer #1 · answered by Bird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and see your doctor or midwife right away.
Babies are strong little creatures and the womb is a very protective environment, so generally speaking sex during early pregnancy isn't harmful and you probably have nothing to worry about. But you are worried, and only the sensible advice of a doctor or nurse can take that worry away.
Don't be embarrassed to describe exactly what kind of sex you and your husband like, and ask your doctor for detailed guidelines as to what you should and shouldn't do at different stages of the pregnancy. Every couple has these questions, so doctors and midwives have heard them all before and can tell you what's best for your baby.
You could also take your husband along. He may have questions and concerns of his own about how the pregnancy and the baby will change both your lives. If he's embarrassed to be there while you discuss this, then ask if he's got any questions he'd like you to put to the doctor. In any case, talk to him afterwards and take him through everything. He needs to know how to look after and protect you and your baby.
It sounds as if you two love each other and have a great sex life. That's a wonderful situation for a baby, to have two loving parents with a strong bond. I wish you happiness.
2007-11-25 20:58:16 · answer #2 · answered by Helen M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From experience the cramping sounds like mini braxton hicks (trial contractions - not the real thing they are just your bodies way of getting your uterus into shape) They come on after orgasm and can be a bit uncomfortable. It is very normal to worry about your unborn baby. Im not sure where in the world you are and whether your maternity care is free, but you should be due for a scan at around 18 weeks anyway that will put your mind at ease. Sex is great in pregnancy (even hardcore) and will not hurt your baby. The only times i can think of not to have sex is when your waters have broken (due to infection risk) and if you have an incompetent cervix (a cervix that wont stay closed). Talk to your health care professional but i think youre just experienceing normal worries for your baby.
2007-11-25 21:09:16 · answer #3 · answered by bes97 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-03-15 00:23:48 · answer #4 · answered by Joan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is perfectly normal to have cramping after sex (or after an orgasm to be more specific). It happens to women who aren't pregnant but it is much more noticable during pregnancy as your uterus is much bigger. I used to feel it in the last week of my cycle before I was pregnant and I feel it every time now that I am pregnant (and bubs is healthy and kicking constantly). I know it is hard. I think it is totally natural to worry about your baby... it means you're going to be a great Mummy as you're already looking out for your little one.
2007-11-25 21:42:14 · answer #5 · answered by ஜBECஜ ~Mama to Lucy & bump~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fortunatly your you your baby is protected by a sack of water. If your water isn't leaking, then the hardcore sex didn't break it. You husband cuming inside you has no effect on the baby at this early stage. The cramps you felt are from your uterus contracting because of the excitement you felt during sex. Hardcore sex is fine during a normal pregnancy, just don't go throwing yourself down the stairs!
2007-11-25 21:17:15 · answer #6 · answered by Violetta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me, you can do it hard core, and your baby is so well protected that, as long as you don't have any problems with your cervix, your baby will be fine. and the cramps are completely normal, they almost always will occur after orgasm for as long as you are pregnant. i can understand being very afraid though, my sex life wasn't that great while i was pregnant because, even though everybody told me my baby was fine, i was very tense everytime my husband and i had sex. but my daughter was born very healthy, and at 8 months, she's a beautiful, intelligent, and very loving handfull of a baby.
2007-11-25 20:52:45 · answer #7 · answered by lizbriolly's mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it simple! No extremely hardcore stuff pounding...
Cumming is harmless, but as you get larger you could possibly induce labor or pose other physical problems for you and your unborn child. Sex is fine, just dont get too crazy!! Your baby is floating in the ocean in your belly, she probably felt a lil dizzy, but im sure shes fine.
2007-11-25 20:50:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The baby is well cushioned with the amniotic fluid in the sac. I personally would tone things down while pregnant. Since you didn't mention any spotting, you and the baby should be fine.
2007-11-25 20:48:24 · answer #9 · answered by Precious 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It should be fine-It is well-protected.Women have tried for decades to lose babies like this-it doesn`t happen-unless something else was wrong. You`re just worrying. -part of pregnancy. It`s very normal to worry ,it`s a big responsibility.
2007-11-25 20:51:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋