one of my ways to keep in toch with my wife is to talk about happy memories and it worked thanks to yahoo.answer- i used the advices of people- but when i talk about anything else i find no reacting.
is there anything else i can use more than talking about our lovely past. i tried many things to use to start a conversation with my wife like jokes, kitchen, furniture etc but no interests? i need to make our relation more powerful. she forgived me and i know that she loves me and i love her more.
please help me to be a happy family!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-25 20:37:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she does things to lead me and i am a man. the reality says that man lead his wife and kids. so by mistake i gave her hard time untill she became depressed. i really regret and i want to show her that as long there is love there will be a future. therefore, communication suppose to be all the time. this is my problem. she takes good care of me when it come to dinner and lunch. i hope time may change everything to the better.
2007-11-25 21:16:47 · update #1
There is one thing that a wife can not forgive and that is cheating on her. Sure she will tell you she forgives you and she might even believe she has but deep down she hasn't forgiven you and pro ably never will. That doesn't mean she don't love you and want to stay with you. She is in a state of mind that is hard for you to understand,she will work it out in her own time.
If you have shown your wife regret over things you have done and really mean it she will slowly come around and open up to you. I am still working it out in my own mind about the hurt my husband has caused me,it's been 10 years now for my husband and i sense i fount out he was cheating on me.
He has done everything a man could possibly do to show remorse. I love my husband and that is the only reason i stayed with him.
You just keep on doing what you have be doing and under no circumstances get angry at her if she isn't doing what you think she should be doing. Just be there for her and tell her you love her,we can never get tired of hearing that from our husbands and give her lots of hugs.
2007-11-26 11:26:01 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so, what did you do? Obviously she must be very hurt, but since I dont know what it was its hard to tell if her reaction is reasonable or not, in any case its reasonable for her. Yeah I think its time to talk about the future definetely, see where you guys are heading if anywhere, looks like you're in a stalemate sitation, like she's just hanging around with you because she doesnt know what to do, but definetely does not sound happy. ASK: what do you want from the relationship?
2007-11-26 05:09:32 · answer #2 · answered by lampost blues 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There has to be a future and it has to include things she thinks is important to her happiness and a productive relationship. Living only in the past only shows there is no future.
2007-11-26 04:51:37 · answer #3 · answered by caos_bam_bam 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If whatever you did, makes her react this way. All that can help you is time. Pushing her to be the same with you again, is gone. When you did whatever you did. Now you are going to have to let her come back around, if she ever does.
2007-11-26 04:45:47 · answer #4 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What the heck did you do to make her react like this? She may have forgiven you but she may have not yet gotten over it. You have to discuss it with her again and really get her to forgive you and find out why she's reacting or not reacting to you anymore.
2007-11-26 04:42:12 · answer #5 · answered by Equinox 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is an old saying "You reap you sow"
Think there is nobody that can help you.
You done the damage.
Maybe,Think on why your not getting no reaction.
food for thought
2007-11-26 06:55:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about a lovely future. buy her flowers. make her feel special. romance her it works
2007-11-26 04:46:14 · answer #7 · answered by rufstuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋