If you are a single working mom and she is married and works two jobs but has a husband who refuses to work. He just sits around and does nothing.
2007-11-25 18:04:14 · 26 answers · asked by I know a lil' bit about that 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I would be upset about it, especially since you are a single mom..it can get a lot rougher for you than her...since her man can go get a job!!
2007-11-25 18:06:14 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Rachel 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong to constantly lend a friend money, and if it is, then as soon as a friend asks for you to lend money, then immidiatly ask for a loan of the same amount back, because it should work both ways, right?
2007-11-25 18:06:47 · answer #2 · answered by Disco243 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my view lending money is an investment. See for what purpose the one is using that money. Think before it turns to bad debts. Lending for good purpose is very nice dealing. But we must think "Give money earn enemy". This world wouldn't be like this now if one didn't help another.
2007-11-25 18:18:44 · answer #3 · answered by tuks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have an extra budget and you know that you could help a friend, then i dont think its a problem at all.
if you yourself needs that money and you cannot help your friend with the money issue, then you have the reason to stop lending her money.
her husband and her issue or work is a different situation from she's asking for money, although we clearly know what is the cause and effect.
if you got some, give some :)
2007-11-25 18:24:58 · answer #4 · answered by ~desa~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some problems with this tale. once you're married, funds dealing with must be stated and licensed by both companions. the very incontrovertible reality that he's loaning funds to anybody without your consent is faulty, incorrect, incorrect. the very incontrovertible reality that he's loaning funds to someone you don't like is faulty. the very incontrovertible reality that he's picking to stay in a "friendship" that you do not approve of is faulty. Sorry female, yet you've were given huge marriage complications. Your husband isn't respecting you as his spouse and important different. you've 2 possibilities.... a million) proceed to put up with it and not in any respect whinge or 2) provide him an ultimatum and go by with it. solid success.
2016-10-25 02:14:20 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lend them money. It cause them to depend on you as a crutch, very soon they will end up using you even if they are not doing it intentionally. Let them as a married couple sort out their own affair, don't be suck it. You got enough troubles of your own. Tell nicely to your friend exactly what you feel.
2007-11-25 18:11:02 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be upset if she is constantly asking to borrow money. Money among friends is a touchy subject as is. I think this is makes it worse knowing someone in her corner (her husband) could be going out and getting a job to help out with financial matters. Therefore minimizing if not eliminating her need to have to borrow money from her friends.
2007-11-25 18:08:51 · answer #7 · answered by gotfood13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lend her some advice instead of money. Tell the lazy as s to get a job and stop being a deadbeat. Tell your friend to stop supporting his as s. Why should you have to work harder because your friends husband is a dick and she refuses to get rid of him?
2007-11-25 18:06:57 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lending money to friends is one of the fastest ways to lose that friend. No itis not wrong to lend money to friends.
2007-11-25 18:06:50 · answer #9 · answered by lovesongangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is ever good to lend money to friends. It typically comes out bad.
2007-11-25 18:59:37 · answer #10 · answered by Mark D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be allowing her to be dependent on your loans and be an enabler to her using your friendship for the money rather than forcing her husband to get a job.
2007-11-25 18:10:58 · answer #11 · answered by GisL4all 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋