1. It's OK to suggest a drink instead of dinner for a first date. She dreads a potentially boring, four-course ordeal, too!
2. Always call her by early evening on Tuesday to confirm a Wednesday get-together -- it's the polite thing to do and it lets her know you're already thinking about her.
3. Be sure to leave both your home and work phone numbers. If you don't leave your home number, she might assume you have a wife or girlfriend. If you don't leave any number, she'll wonder what game you're playing.
4. If you want to keep the plans a surprise, at least
“clue her in as to what to wear”
clue her in as to what to wear. You do not want an overdressed, overstressed woman navigating in high heels on a sunset beach walk.
5. Always listen to what she has to say, and make sure you wait until she's done talking before responding.
6. Don't assume that just because you're out with a beautiful woman, she knows how pretty she looks -- she wants to hear it from you. Don't go overboard, though, or she might think you're insincere.
7. Men judge women according to whether they can picture having sex with them; women judge men by whether they can imagine kissing them. White teeth, fresh breath, great shoes, cell phone turned off, and unchapped lips make her more apt to lock lips with you that night.
8. Do not ask her, "So, what kind of music do you like?" The last 10 guys asked that. Be original and instead fill your iPod with a great mix of music that expresses your style.
9. Tip well. Believe me, she'll be watching.
10. Reading body language is simple: If she touches your arm, she's interested. If she touches your leg, she's interested tonight. If she leans away from you the whole night, she is not interested at all.
11. Very small gestures go a long way and show her you're a gentleman. When you drop her off at her house, be sure to wait the extra 30 seconds while she gets inside (and next time you might be going in with her!).
12. Women need momentum. Without it, they lose interest or wonder if you have lost it, too. Follow up with a phone call the next night. Even more important, ask her out at the end of the date. Don't play games or wait.
13. Never look at another woman when you are on a date. If she catches your wandering eye, you are done.
2007-11-25
17:56:32
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they are...
13 Keys to a Perfect First Date
i think they are kinda bogus.
especially 11
What happened to walking her to the door?? Or maybe you could just slow down the car to a crawl, reach over and open the door so she can jump out...
2007-11-25
17:58:57 ·
update #1
they arent all bad
2007-11-25
18:32:09 ·
update #2
#1 . makes perfect sense
#2 . being polite , and early when meeting , ARE nice touches .
#3 . A , in todays world a woman should assume any man she is talking to is gay ( my personal view ) , and , B , she should never wonder , thats why we have intuition . as far as phone #'s go , who says a man even needs one , i get along .
#4 . a what to wear clue is too much , instead , " bring a wardrobe , i got a surprize "
#5 . thats a gimme in all situations , no ??
#6 . thats a thin line we all limp upon , eh ?
#7 . what ? re dick you lus !!!
#8 . sum of US are poor guys , remember ??
#9 . depends , on who , she is , i , suppose .
#10 . good thing number 10 is in , the picture , thank you for the insight . i rub you
2007-11-25 18:23:51
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answered by Anonymous
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1) Keep your mouth shut & mind your own business: - I agree with this one. Don't spread gossip, don't spread rumours, don't make up rumours, etc. If somebody tells you something important, don't tell anyone! Treat people how YOU would want to be treated! 2) The only friends you can trust are the dead presidents in your pocket: - What? I don't really understand that one, haha! So, I'd have to say disagree? I think that you can trust your friends, you family, etc? 3) Always take a shower at night time: - Disagree. I shower every morning. It wakes me up, and makes me feel clean & refreshed. 4) Look for money, not love. Love never lasts: - I Absolutely disagree. Love does last. 5) Go to college to be rich: - Uhm, I sort of agree. I think she means if you want a good life & job, get a good education? Yes, I agree. 6) Don't get pregnant 15/above, keep you legs shut, & read instead: - Well, you can get pregnant ABOVE 15, but 15 and anything under is way to young. I'd say anything under 18 is too young. That's just my opinion. 7) Always brush your teeth: - Of course! 8) Shut up, and only talk when provoked: - I disagree. If you want to start a conversation, or state your opinion, go for it! Freedom of Speech! 9) Try to look for stuff around the house when trying to gift someone around the holidays: - Disagree. Nobody wants something used? 10) Don't waste money on after school activities (dance, gymnastics, sports) because you'll never become that when you grow up: - This one actually made me mad. I've been in dance, cheer, and gymnastics since I was little. I have a passion for it, and I'm good at it. I'm actually going to have a career as a professional dancer when I'm older, most likely anyways. I disagree with this one 100000% 11) Always use your common sense in everything, it's never in colour, and always in black and white: - I don't get this one either. But yeah, use your common sense. 12) Before leaving the house, always use the bathroom: - Chya! 13) When in doubt, burp it out: - Nah. x
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like: 2, 4, 5, 6, 8, 11, 12, 13
the other seem superficial (like 9) or just vary from person to person
2007-11-25 18:01:44
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answered by Anonymous
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I think they are great! and with number 11, yes he should walk her to the door and then wait until lights go on inside before pulling away.
2007-11-25 18:09:26
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answered by dizzkat 7
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It's amazing to me that people need dating tips. Yeah, these wouldn't win me over. But, some people have NO IDEA how to interact anymore. I guess these are good starting points for real hermits.
2007-11-25 18:00:55
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answered by Anonymous
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Hmmm interesting. The male creature is a savage beast and needs to know these things.
2007-11-25 18:03:47
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answered by alwaysmoose 7
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All very basic and for the most part helpful for a twenty year old...
2007-11-25 18:13:50
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answered by Joe R 2
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no, they're not bogus. these things turn many girls on. but i bet the person who has researched and found out these tips had to work on it to his death.
2007-11-25 18:03:18
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answered by Wonderful 5
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not bad.
2007-11-25 17:58:39
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answered by John 1
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