15 year old son looking at hardcore PORN?

Question

My new boyfriend has a 15 year old son. Today I was at his house, his son was not home, and my boyfried was still at work. I have been going out with him for about 1 month now. While he was at work, I went into his sons room and went on to the computer.

I checked his history, there was 100s of pages of porn from many websites, limewire, torrentspy ect. There was many types of porn, I saw scat pages hardcore ____, and so on.
I was appaled. I didn't mean to be snoopy but I was curious.

His son dos not have any learning or social problems. What should I do?

Answer 1

um... thats completely normal in our modern age. Kid's have access to porn so easy now it really just happens. I woulnd't worry about it, and stop snooping around in his business!! lol

Answer 2

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Answer 3

This is why I don't agree with children/teens having TVs or computers in their rooms. BUT it was not your right to go into his sons room and snoop. He's 15 years old with a computer in his room, obviously not being supervised and having appropriate blocks/limits placed on the computer. What do you think MOST 15 year old boys AND girls would be looking at? Porn. I'm not saying that hardcore, twisted porn that's out there should be viewed by such impressionable minds, but alas... this is what happens when children of such an age are left to their own devices. Perhaps you should casually mention that you noticed that your boyfriends son has a computer in his room. Then ask if your boyfriend has put the appropriate parental locks on his computer and if he checks where his son is 'surfing'. But, beyond that... keep your mouth shut. I certainly wouldn't admit to going into his SONS room while he was not around. That is a violation of privacy.

Answer 4

Your last sentence says it. His son does not have any learning or social problems. Looking at porn is a very natural thing, especially for teens who are learning, exploring, or just discovering sex. He is curious. Have you never looked at porn?
Someone who has never looked would be the one considered abnormal.

Even if there was something wrong there, you could mention it to your bf, but really its not your place. You havnt been in a long term relationship with either the father or the son. You have no right to say what the son should or should not be viewing.

Not to mention, the comp is in his room. I would reason to say dad knows son looks at porn. And being that comp is still in room with clearly no parental blocks, I would reason to say dad allows son to look at porn.

Another not to mention, how is gonna look that you were snooping??????

Answer 5

U shouldnt do anything it is normal for a 15 year old boy to look at porn. He is growing up he has teenage hormones and needs a way to take care of those wouldnt u rather him look at porn than have sex with some girl and get her pregnant just dont worry about it. Leave it alone and let him explore.

Answer 6

Its fine. That wierd stuff like poop porn is just browsed because he is curious. I would too if i had just found out people ate each others **** to have a good time. Plus, why were you in there in the first place. Violating the privacy of the son of your new boyfriend? You can do that after marriage. You have plenty of time.

Answer 7

Let it go. Word of advice: NEVER go on the son's computer. Let it go. Things will get awkward and uncomfortable for all involved, well beyond need, if you bring it up. Most boys by his age have plenty of contact with porn, and just cuz it's there doesn't mean he's all into every bit of it... just hoarding, probably. Let it go. It's normal, and not unhealthy unless it starts becoming a noticeable obsession or preoccupation.

Answer 8

er all 15 years olds will be into porn given half the chance.


its like bees are attracted to flowers, cats play with string and dogs like peeing on lamposts.


though scat and games with poo.... thats soooo groooooosse.


it may be out of curiosity, he did not know what it meant or simly as it was grose.

I would suggest he sticks to regular sex porn(lesbians, 3 somes, dress up etc) not the freak stuff as girls would run a mile

Answer 9

boys will be boys, they will watch and look at porn through out there entire life.

Your new boyfriend there, yeah im sure he's viewed a page or two.. maybe even more.

You may be appaled but 15 is aroudn the age to start, today in this day and age childred.. YES CHILDREN, are starting young.

Only advice I can give is to hint to your boyfriend and see if he's ever had "the talk" with his son, if not, try to force him to do so, incase any actions are being taken by the son.. to try out things he saw in porn.

Answer 10

I don't know what SCAT porn is, but I do know what a nosy girlfriend is. How can you justify just popping onto your boyfriends sons computer and CHECKING THE HISTORY? Maybe you should tell your boyfriend so he knows just who he's dealing with. What happens when you move in with him? Are you going to go through all his sock draws and count how many condoms are left in the packet? Your behaviour is inexcusable. You should go and ask the son for his forgiveness.

Answer 11

if i were you, i would just tell his father and let him handle it. i don't see it as a problem at all however, because i know a lot of teenagers (both male and female) who have started looking at porn and becoming curious about sex at around the same age as your boyfriend's son. also, i would stay out of his personal belongings, because not only is he not your son, but if he does find out that you have tampered with his stuff, he would probably feel extremely angry and/or betrayed that you were snooping. i hope i didn't sound rude, but i'm just trying to think from a 15 year old boy's point of view.