me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 5 months :/?

Question

and we have only kissed like 3 times. Once within the first month then two rescently. I feel like this isn't right. I am 16 and he is 17. Why haven't we kissed more? he is my first boyfriend and i really don't know what to expect! I am so ready to make out with him and the way it has been going I beginning to think he won't make the first move... so maybe i should?.. but how? I mean is any of this out of the ordinary or has it happend before. wow I feel so weird asking this!

Answer 1

Maybe he respects you or himself or both and thinks you should wait for marriage to be more intimate.

Answer 2

Maybe you would be his first time also. He might be alittle scared and not know how to approach you. The time and place has to be right also. You dont want to just do it anywhere...remember respect for yourself. Ask him "how do you feel about haveing sex"? You should get a good idea from his answer where he stands with you.

Answer 3

Ask him how he feels. You will make out with your boyfriend when the time is right. Take things slow. Hold hands when you are together. Hug him often. See how he reacts the next time you kiss him.

Answer 4

try communicating with your boyfriend more, and being honest. it'll take some weight off your chest, and both of you will feel more comfortable with eachother. and remember, don't rush into anything that you aren't comforable with. if you don't feel like you can handle it, then you probably aren't ready for it. good luck

Answer 5

talk to him about it. maybe he's just more reserved, maybe he's just not that into you...but you won't find out on yahoo answers. talk to him about your concerns. "i really like you, but i don't feel like we're showing enough affection...etc."

Answer 6

talk to him about it. I am sure he wants to. Just may not wish to rush you. Possiblt he is as confused as you

Answer 7

if you offer, he probably won't say no