2007-11-25 16:17:46 · 35 answers · asked by wolflady 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
sometimes we can say or do something that seems ok to us but for some weird reasons...it would hurt or give a bad impression of things on our friends of ourselves...no matter how life is,we can't please everyone...there are times even with family members we would blunder...that is life right?
2007-11-25 19:42:01 · answer #1 · answered by faris j 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well yes and I felt so bad. We were going out one night and my friend said, "Do these pants make my but look big?" I said, "Do you want me to tell you the truth?" She said, "Yes." I said, "Yes and they make it look like an upside down bowling pin." She was very hurt but later she said, "I know I can trust you as a real friend because I thought the same thing but everyone else said they looked good!"
It was a lesson in honesty that goes back more than 20 years
2007-11-26 03:52:10 · answer #2 · answered by teresa m 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, wolflady everyone has done so I think, without intending to. As long as you realise the mistake you made, and make up for it after expressing your sorry for the same it shouldn't be a big issue in the long run.
2007-11-25 16:22:41 · answer #3 · answered by peep 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have. I lied to her once, and I thought that it would be for the better. However, the lie turned out hurting her more than the truth did. But we got over it, although it took awhile.
2007-11-25 16:20:58 · answer #4 · answered by koneko_bombay 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone has at some point. The only thing you can really do is give a sincere apology and try to learn from the experience.
2007-11-25 16:25:25 · answer #5 · answered by Serpentine Fire 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and most of the time they get some sense out of getting hurt...
2007-11-25 16:22:05 · answer #6 · answered by alamrihn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,a few times. i have a habit of speaking without thinking first. i just rattle off my thoughts,not realizing sometimes i may hurt someones feelings. im trying to work on that. :-(
2007-11-25 16:21:06 · answer #7 · answered by As You Wish 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes.. hurt my friend's feelings a lot but good thing she's a very good friend she always understands me in the end..
2007-11-25 16:21:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, I did.
it was painful and they took it seriously!!
I say sorry for a million times and it didn't work.
BUt later i explain calmly to her that I didn't mean it, and its ok if you don't understand and if you don't want to be my friend anymore then is ok.
But I promise you that after a few days your friend will come chasing after you wanting you bak, you know why?
its because they will never find a great friend as great and good as YOU are.
think about it.. :)
2007-11-25 16:24:17 · answer #9 · answered by 영원~Dalmate :D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but I acted fast and I apologize immediately after I saw her reaction and then I realized I said something wrong
2007-11-25 16:20:31 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋