I am a virgin and my boyfriend and I have been discussing sex. I know it is different for every woman but I have a question....
He is about 7" long and a rather large girth too...is it likely to hurt? I have heard that the cervix is only about 4" into the vagina...so I'm kinda worried about that if he goes all the way in and hits it. (Also worried about the girth, too.)
2007-11-25 15:38:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
I lost my virginity to my current boyfrined and he is pretty big and wide as well. I'm not going to lie about it: the first time did hurt. But once you do it again and again, your body gets used to it--although i must admit, even now after three years, it's quite powerful everytime he enters me and every time i still need a min or two to get used to it. You'll be fine.
Good Luck :)
2007-11-25 16:02:24 · answer #1 · answered by mrazle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
His size you describe is kinda large! I've been talking to a friend that says it did hurt her too (not from me). But like you say everyone is different.
Mine is small at just 4.5 inches in length. My girth is 4.7" or almost as thick as an empty tp roll. Not sure where my girth rates. Probably below avg too.
His is long enough that hitting your cervix could be a possibility. As far as girth, just have him go slow and make sure you are "wet" (lubricated) enough.
2007-11-26 11:49:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The cervix is very strong and can withstand pressure and tension from the entering penis and it's also why the uterus in pregnant women in formed in the cervix. The girth shouldn't be a problem just remember to stimulate your g-spot or clitoris. The vaginal opening should increase due to the stimulation of the clitoris. I hope this helped.
2007-11-25 23:46:45 · answer #3 · answered by Eric D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first time hurt a little at first but after a few seconds it was awesome and my boyfriend was bigger than most, just relax, the more you worry about it the less your going to enjoy it. But if your really unsure maybe you should wait until you know for sure that you ar 100% ready.
2007-11-26 00:32:45 · answer #4 · answered by DazedandConfused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be totally relaxed when you do have sex or it is likely to hurt. The first time isn't the most pleasurable for most women but make sure you do lots of foreplay. Use lube
Girth - we can deliver a baby so dont worry about that.
2007-11-25 23:45:11 · answer #5 · answered by chel070580 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use some lube, protection and you will be fine. Try different position. If you are on top you can control how much goes in.
A just remember a baby can fit through coming out.
2007-11-25 23:43:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since your a virgin it is gonna hurt really bad but after the pain it feels good. and you will be swore after wards. but im not sure about the cervix. there are alot of guys that are bigger than 7'' and still have sex so im sure you will be fine! i say go for it! =]
2007-11-25 23:44:05 · answer #7 · answered by Gabby M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do lot of foreplay, use large quantity of lube & slow penetration. Everything will be fine. And of course if you find it uncomfortable at any stage you can tell him to slow down or stop further penetration. If you both are understanding & accomodative I am sure you will enjoy it from the word go.
2007-11-25 23:52:40 · answer #8 · answered by Meeto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your vagina can accomodate the birth of a baby so you should be fine with first time sex. The less you worry about it the better it will be for you.
2007-11-25 23:42:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have something in common with your boyfriend. I did not find any problems with my girlfriend at first. Don't worry, it'll be exciting. Enjoy your life, life is too short.
2007-11-25 23:47:43 · answer #10 · answered by Fried Ice Cream 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋