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2007-11-25 15:26:17 · 46 answers · asked by Ivan The Terrible 2 in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

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Absolutey. By definition, the act of rape is commiting a sexual crime against someone by forcing sexual or lude acts against them upon being told "no" or having expressed the desire to have them stop. Basically, woman, man, transexual, black, white, purple, polka dotted... if you express to someone that you do not want to have any kind of sexual action with someone and they continue anyway, that is molestation or rape.
In case you are wondering how, just because you are aroused doesn't mean you have consented to sex. It is possible for a woman to physically over-take a man and have her way with him. Though he may be aroused, he still does not have to consent. People, by right, are able to stop a heated situation at their discretion without following through.

2007-11-25 15:33:21 · answer #1 · answered by SarShell 2 · 5 0

Unfortantely society only wants to hear the stories about the mean abusive man beating up and raping his poor pathetic wife and children. In general people have a hard time perceiving a man being physically or sexually abused or raped by a woman and the woman or mother doing the sexual abuse.

I was in a marriage where my ex-wife physically abused me and would throw things at me, would hit me, and was verbally abusive. She would force me into some situations sexually that I was against. No one believed me because I was a male. It ticked me off so much. I am not an aggressive male and am rather passive and quiet. Things have changed some since then. I have learned to speak out and say HELL no.

Yes, women can do just as much harm as men can do. Yes men can be raped by women as men can rape women. There is no difference. It just isn't talked about.

2007-11-25 15:59:32 · answer #2 · answered by Tommy Thompson 4 · 4 0

Wow, there were a surprising amount of "no"s... Which is sad. Because it is not that rare. It accounts for 10% of rape cases.

The thing is, men do not often bring it to the officials. Why? They face ridicule. They face people not believing them. They are mocked by their friends, by the police, by hospital staff. They are accused of lieing, women turn it against them.

Its wrong... Men should not be forced to feel such shame about it. Men face so much more than just the rape when it happens to them. They have to deal with the rape, the long lasting emotional effects, AND the mockery of their peers, even some times their families. Its wrong that they are treated worse...

And the whole "How can you force a man to get an erection" is BULLSH*T. A woman tied down, unwillingly, if you stimulate her cliterous, she will have an orgasm. Her vagina will get wet. I've known people that have had to deal with the shame and horror that their body reacted against their will.

You stimulate the penis/testicals, he will get an erection. Nothing he can do about it. People who think otherwise, should be ashamed of theirselves.

2007-11-25 15:58:16 · answer #3 · answered by Ayana 6 · 4 0

A man can be raped by a woman. It's not about a woman physically holding a man down, though, in most cases. It's just that the body has a natural reaction when it comes to sex. Let' say a woman is being totally cruel verbally to a man, yet gently caressing him to arouse him, and then forces him to have sex with her. It's not his fault he became aroused, just as there are some female rape victims who become aroused, it's a natural reaction the body has.

In summary, yes, a man can be raped by a woman. And if he is, he shouldn't feel ashamed, he should seek help and find the support he needs.

2007-11-25 15:52:21 · answer #4 · answered by Zarathustra 4 · 3 0

It is very possible for men to be raped by women. Whether it's from an authority figure or someone you just met. Women are capable of most things men are and that is one of them.

2007-11-25 15:32:37 · answer #5 · answered by ashleysgurl21 2 · 2 0

Yes, I have heard of a case that went to trial for a women rapeing a man. Don't know how it happended but it can.

2007-11-25 15:30:13 · answer #6 · answered by DT 4 · 3 0

Chea they can. Have you heard of women abusing the men in the relationship? They can kindof intimidate them and coerce them into doing it. But like physically, I don't know if a woman can hold a man down and rape him. But like emotionally and mentally she can make him do things he doesn't want to do.

2007-11-25 15:32:27 · answer #7 · answered by chunkiemunkiexd 1 · 2 0

absolutely...you don't hear about it much because men don't report it, but men being raped by other men and by women does exist and, in my opinion, the victims need to be heard.

2007-11-25 15:48:54 · answer #8 · answered by Bridget C 3 · 1 0

Can't rape the willing.
Haha!

All kidding aside, I have heard of such things happening. But how can you FORCE a guy to get an erection? Besides, if I am being raped by say a bull dyke truck driver type I would ask to have a bullet through my head so I wouldn't have to suffer the indignity of being violated by such a wildebeest.

So if it were say Mariah Carey then I refer you to the "can't rape the willing" comment I made.

2007-11-25 15:34:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2 2

Yes, a woman can rape a man. We all know the phrase, "no means no." If a man says no to a woman and she overpowers him to have sex, it is rape. It does not matter that a man stays physically aroused.

2007-11-25 15:41:52 · answer #10 · answered by bichailatte 2 · 2 0

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