some of your friends that you don't really talk to much anymore?
What do you do to get them out of your head? Or should you not get them out and find them again?
2007-11-25 14:39:28 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Find them... there's a reason why they can't get out of your head... It's a good sign.
2007-11-25 14:47:22 · answer #1 · answered by Gbinz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends come and go, no reason to forget about them, why would you want to get them out of your head if they were a friend, at the same time, depending on how close they were, there may or may not be a reason to find them again. There is nothing wrong with moving on, meeting new people and making new friends. How badly do you want to see them again, how bad do you miss them? if you miss them a lot find them, if its just like "I wonder whatever happened to..." then just assume he/she has new friends as you probably do to, and all is well. I have learned you cant expect anyone to stay in your life for very long, and when you meet someone who is special enough to keep around, then YOU have to make sure to keep contact.
2007-11-25 14:51:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You run into them again over time. Funny how it works out. If you care enough, you try to find them. You don't get them out of your head unless you really want to. You can try to do internet searches, ask around your old home town, usually there is some connection if you look, but people change and even if you find each other it is not always an instant hook-up thing, as both of your lives are busier now. But good to stay in touch by email or occassional phone call or myspace.
2007-11-25 14:44:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! I so missed a friend I had lost touch with. I had tried several times to reach her, track her down... even calling her parents house and leaving a message.
My name had changed because of a new marriage.
Anyway. About two months ago out of the blue I get a call from her. I was so excited!! Hilarity ensued as we kept calling each others' voicemail (on the phone at the same times) Finally we chatted for 3 hours... totally caught up!
Just find them again... they probably miss you too.
2007-11-25 14:45:57 · answer #4 · answered by sylvia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I miss my friends. I try to talk to them as much as I can. Hard to sometimes though. You will never get them out of your head. You will always have memories and remember the good times. They have touched your life in some way. Try to call them just to say hi. At least you can say you tried to.
2007-11-25 14:45:54 · answer #5 · answered by MissV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you mean?
I have a couple of friends like that. If they mean that much to you find them!!! But keep in mind some people change so your friendship may not be the same. Dont hate them for this, they may have changed for the best! We all grow up and make new friends and keep some of our old ones too.
2007-11-25 14:44:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The friends I hung out with at school. I don't really miss them. I left school and homeschooled. It was kinda tough at first but its better. We don't really have contact with each other. Only if someone maybe is having a birthday party or if we just happen to see each other. we might give a hug and say hi. Thats about it. I have other friends now. I see them all the time. So I don't really think about my other friends unitl someone / something brings them up.
2007-11-25 14:43:37 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really miss my friends from when I was in grade and intermediate school. I got over it after a while, but I think the best thing is to talk to them now and then (maybe search them on Myspace and get their email). Usually if you talk to them again then you will see that you don't have such a strong bond and not seeing them will be less stressful.
2007-11-25 14:43:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you will always miss the friends you don't really talk to anymore thus, because they will always be apart of our hearts.
It's up to you if you want to be friends again; this allll depends on how the friendship went, if you stopped talking because of a fight or something then you decide if it was really worth it or not. How to get them out of your head? You never can, you just gotta cope with it.
2007-11-25 14:42:40 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, I definately do. I really don't try to get them out of my head, its not good to forget about them that would be pretty heartless. I know what it feels like to have someone forget about me, it feels like I was a toy that was outgrown. It is good to try and find them maybe they're waiting for ya. but if they're deliberately avoiding you the best thing to do is back off and let them decide what they have done. Its always good to remember your friends and see how they're doing and yeah reunite if you and your friend agree on it. If your friend wasn't that great one important thing to remember is not to dwell obsessively on the past otherwise you won't have a future
2007-11-25 14:53:56 · answer #10 · answered by Albert C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋