I have never in my life been attracted to girls. I loveeee boys. alot. i'm like boy crazy. but...there is this girl at school. She is a lesbian and she dresses in baggy clothes, weares a baseball hat to the side, and has a lip ring. I'm soo attracted to her. Everytime i pass her, i just like get turned on..also...Dani from SHot at Love..i thinnk she is very hot and i am attracted to her. But i don't feel attracted to girls in general. I'm so confused...i have a boyfriend and i am 16
2007-11-25 14:37:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I also secretly think that two girls making out is very hot
2007-11-25 14:40:50 · update #1
First, dear, don't get panicky or anxious about any feelings you might have.
Brands and names and definitions are just simple little boxes where life simply doesn't fit.
SO, you have to be calm, and explore deeply and with detail all that you are feeling....
Taste your reactions, your pleasures and later try to see if they are related to your most important desires in life.
Maybe you are excited just by some girls, depending on how they act, what they do, and you feel like doing things with them, closely. But that would not necessarily be sexual games or compromises.
If you are happy with boys, looking at them, or with girls, looking at them, being with them, playing with them, just do it!! There is nothing wrong with that, as long as you go with a complete control of yourself and not blindly.
You may close your eyes while tasting a pleasurable ice cream you love. That doesn't mean you are loosing yourself in something dangerous, for any time you can change anything the way you want, and you are not going to eat one ice cream after the other all day and all your life!
So, enjoy your life, knowing you are in charge. Maybe when you'll be 100 years old, you might be able to classify more clearly your feelings and predilections. But now?!
The mind has nothing to do with our emotional and deep life. Don't let it spoil everything trying to classify what you don't even had experienced yet!
Love, Lilly
2007-11-25 15:09:34 · answer #1 · answered by Lilly Nuh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think because the world is becoming more accepting to the gay lifestyle it's becoming more appealing to those of us who would have never even considered being with the same sex. I'm having the same problem, and I am married. I think we are just figuring out that the same way we become attracted to men is now happening to us with women.
2007-11-25 15:45:34 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are just curious. Just wait your opportunity will come should you choose to take it.
2007-11-25 15:39:12 · answer #3 · answered by ashleysgurl21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah your probly bi curious but maybe u get turned on by them because they look like guys n stuff
2007-11-25 15:23:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you just like seeing how they look, you're probably bi-curious. If you are sexually or romantically attracted to them, you're probably bisexual.
2007-11-25 14:41:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you might be bi-curious. You have lots of time to figure that out.
2007-11-25 14:40:18 · answer #6 · answered by Aloha_Ann 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a hot girl..........Maybey you're just curious! Tell your boyfriend!
2007-11-25 14:44:26 · answer #7 · answered by J☼E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋