Am I crazy?

Question

I am 30 years old and I have been waiting for this opportunity my entire life. I finally found a store front for my dance school I can afford with an estimate from the contractor he told me that it should cost 12,000. So I put together a benefit show casted dancers and choreographers and all I have to do is direct. Everything is going so well and now I found out I am 2 months pregnant the show is supposed to go up the second week of June and I am not due until July 5th. My husband is mad that I am continuing and he keeps arguing with me and telling me I am not thinking about our family but I feel I am. Once the show is over I can take a few months off relax with the baby and then set up the school. I feel like I am so close should I just stop let this pass me by and enjoy being pregnant what do? What do I tell all those people I think with planning it is possible but he keeps arguing with me am I being too focused and not seeing reality.
What should I do {Please no hurtful answers}

Answer 1

Live your life with few regrets. In the future,you will regret not trying this and you will blame your husband. We only get one shot at this life and one incredibly short shot at youth. You must try to convey this to your husband and assure him that he and the baby are your main concern. Tell him you know this is true of him as well and that means opening his mind to possibilities. The baby will take up all your time for sure, but juggling and multi-tasking is what we women do best. Being pregnant does not make you an invalid. Nothing has changed except for your body. Your mind still craves creativity and challenges that will not interfere with being a mom just as his work will not interfere with his being a dad.

Answer 2

life is not meant to stop just becasue you're having a baby - if anything doinf what you love and focusing your energy on doing things that make you happy is the best way to go. Your DH should be more supportive and and stop arguing with you, I'm not sure what that will accomplish other then both of you steeming in different rooms at each other. maybe seek a comparmise and hire an assistant to help you. But if you feel strong enough and happy enough - not under too much stress or pressure - and surround yourself with positive people you'll do fine, achieve your dreams and have a good life.
All the best

Answer 3

First you're going to need to be sure not to overwork or stress yourself. This can lead to a number of issues for the baby. If you're certain you can control the workload and stress level I'd say go for it! Once you have that baby it's going to be a good long time before you'll even be able to consider holding the benefit.
It benefits you financially and he should understand it benefits him and your child also.
If you have any health issues you should agree to cancel and take it easy right away. Stress and over working played a horrible part in my first pregnancy. I didn't want to face it until I found myself in the hospital for an extended period of time. Be sure to take care of yourself.
Congratulations!

Answer 4

Take care of the baby in you... that's a blessing.