i dont care- or do I?

Question

Well, yeah...

I feel like im in a pit surrounded by fire and there's no way out. First off, my grades, for the first time ever, are very low and im on the verge of failing. My mom says that she'll send me to summer school if i fail, and we dont even have enough money to do that. I don't even have any future plans because i dont know what im gonna do(BTW im in the 10th grade and running out of time), to be honest, i don't plan on living that long anyways, because i know im gonna be pushed off the edge, and end up poisoning myself.
People, i appreciate your help, but the tutor advice never works, trust me. I done it before, and i doesn't change a thing in my case. Frankly, i cant take school seriously anymore, and hell, i know my family is MOST LIKELY to think less of me if i fail, because i'll be the first one. But im just like: **** it.

If you agree with me, type in "**** IT"

if you actually have some advice that will probably work, then give me some.

Answer 1

Well, I've never been in exactly your situation, but a lot of people have and they got through it.

Yes, there is always a way. You may flunk and repeat a year, which will play hob with your social life, but it's one way. Your parents may or may not have the money to send you to summer school, but there is usually a way.

There is no need to poison yourself if you fail some courses. All you have to do is figure out what to do next. Have you talked to a guidance conselor at school?

Any clue what's going on? Is your health OK? Got dating problems? How is life at home aside from the pressure about grades? Are you doing alchohol or drugs? Addictive behavior of any kind? Were your grades formerly good?

I know you think your family will think less of you if you fail, but they will still love you. They did not love because you had good grades, they loved you because you are you. That doesn't stop when you start having troubles.

Answer 2

In the long run grades will not matter much. Your parents most likely will not care 10 years from now if you got an A in a certain class or a B but they will be proud that you were able to achieve your dreams.

To be able to achieve your dreams you will need to be able to learn new things and overcome challenges. That is what school is about - learning new things and overcoming challenges. This is why you should try to do the best you can in your classes even if they do not particularly interest you. Such subjects like English and math are especially important because whether you are a doctor or a janitor you will need to be able to communicate effectively and manage money.

In the future, having all the wealth or commendations or fame in the world will not make you happy. Just look at the news and see the unhappiness of those possibly considered much more fortunate than you or I.

However, what is important is to find the passion in your life that allows you to enjoy life and be productive. Find passion in doing everything you attempt well and you will succeed. Even if you do not do well in a certain class if you always take the approach of doing your best with each challenge you face you will stumble onto that which you will really excel in.

Answer 3

If you really feel like your going to do something to hurt yoursself then you need to talk to someone about that. Trust me I didnt do to well in high school either. My sister was a four point honor roll student, and I was failing miserably. I didnt even want to go to school anymore.
My advice to you is to get through high school, and do the best you can, because it does help you after, but do realize that there is an after high school, because things will get better. Just because you dont do well in high school doesnt mean that the rest of your life will be such a struggle too. Thats how they make it sound, but its just not true. Get your diploma, and look forward to the rest of your life, because it will be better.

Answer 4

Pay attention and study.